QuoteReplyTopic: oh my god Posted: March 11 2003 at 10:47pm
i did the unbelivable thing
i dyed my hair blonde................ its ok if you are white but i am malay plus i live in a university that forbids colouring plus i am the only human here in the Unirversity that has blonde hair. the effect is scary people turned people stared they say things behind my back they point i got depressed i covered it up with a "kopiah" a type of hat only religious malay men wear it got worser people laugh all this happened in 2 days i was devastated i was sad i was worried but i stood up and took the damm hat off and walk with confindent in my dreams though i still wear the hat but i took it off in class so people will notice only the people that i want to notice So here is and advice colour your hair blonde if you are ready spritually and mentally or you will be sorry if you ever did i am still recovering from this shock perhaps i have to change it back to black again to gain my confindence back so beware
I'm sorry you are having this experience! Can you go to the salon to have it fixed? That would be the best way to solve your problem. Please let us know what happens.
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my mind was going haywire i had to change color. but thank god i had bought this ligh brown hair colour by accident last year. With black hair it had no effect but with blonde hair it turn brown. so i just dyed it back. and now i feel normal again. thank god. maybe i''ll go blonde again but only in a place where everbody else is doing the same thing and it is not forbid. i think i will stick to brunnete and dark auburn shades. safer.
LOL. Being an asian and non-hapa, I was obsessed going blonde. As blonde as Shakira, Gwen Stefani, Christina Aguilera, and Debbie Harry. Along the way, I did achieve pure platinum blonde hair on my own. It was a huge, huge shock. Plus, my hair was in good condition (thick, coarse asian hair). Plus, where I live, there were many asians who dye their hair blonde as well. I also was dyeing my hair in different colors on top of blonde. As a result, I got overprocessed.
Now, I'm back to my natural black hair and I'm already bored with it and miss the blonde hair. However, the health of my hair is very important to me first and to grow it long again before doing drastic color change. I learned my lesson about dyeing and the next time, it's better to stick to root touch ups and one or two toners every several months if I want to change tonality or go darker.
Sorry you had to go through that. I agree it's quite self-conscious at first, but afterwards, you'll feel great and confident. Who cares what other people think of you, whether you're white-washed or not. I have no problem with being asian or my asian identity. I am proud to be asian all the way. :)
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