Help- My hair is on Fire!!!

Hello-

I needed advice on hair color. My natural hair color is Darkest Brown. I dye my hair many times- (Bleached, dark warm blonde, red, etc...) Recently, I have went from dyeing my bleached orangy hair to a beautiful dark warm blonde using Matrix socolor 7W Dark Warm Blonde. After a couple of months of doing the regrowth the same color, The ends became a nocolor brassiness color. I then went to my hair stylist where she suggested a dark mahagony brown. Because my hair was porous, the color actually took very intensely. A bit too dark for me- lacked natural highlights. I wanted it the same Dark warm blonde color- so I applied Scruples hair color remover with 20 volume creme developer to remove the dark and then red color. It became a bright yellow, orangy, blonde color. Next, I deposited the Matrix socolor Dark Warm Blonde 7W with 20 volume creme developer the next day which left me with not much of difference in color. Still orangy, more yellow- blond color- with a little light brown. In the sun it looks like my hair is on fire. Too bright!! Do you have any suggestion to correct this and tone down the fire to a light warm brown with golden highlights. I am afraid to go back to my hairstylist. I'd appreciate your detailed comments or tips or product suggestions! Aloha

Nadia

Thank you advice. Finally someone knows what he's talking about. Thanks again I'll try it:)