Do you like your long hair played with?

I don't mind it being played with, as long as it is not damaging it. My 10 yr old son loves my hair. He is always fingering it, and running his hands through it. I don't think I would let anyone curl it, or straighten it,but only because I don't use any heat on it, so I wouldn't want anyone else to either.

I don't mind as long as they ask for rather than just come up to me and start...the lil ones loved playing with my hair..I even gave some of them a comb to create lil styles for me lol.

As for straightening and curling, I wouldn't.  I rarely and I mean rarely use heat in my hair and if I was to, I'd do it myself.  Though I have straightened and curled other peoples hair for them.

I can rest my hand on the back of my jeans and finger the bottom of my hair.

French braids can be really neat on guys. Look up Renaissance time era pictures, I have seen  some really cool styles for men.

I have seen some great looking long hair on guys. Some can even grow it better than women !It all depends on if it is healthy or not. I don't care what gender you are, if your hair is in horrible condition, it dosen't matter how long it is, it still looks bad.

Hi Pburgh, yes I like it when people play with my hair (though adults more than very young children, because kids can be rough sometimes).  It feels very caring usually, so its nice. 

Thanks for your compliment on my hair, its actually not as long as my photo anymore, that's why I haven't bothered updating recently.  I had dyed it blonde, then realized it didn't make me as happy as I thought it would, so after a few months I dyed it back close to the original color, and due to all the damage its resting around bsl now, as it needs frequent trims.  Once it all comes back in natural I can go for the longer lengths again, but for now, bsl is different for me, so its fun.  Happy growing! 

Just follow the tips on this site, and it'll grow fine.  In short, stay away from heat and chemicals, brush it gently starting from the bottom, don't wear stuff in it that damages it, oil in it prevents knots, trim off any splits so they don't climb, use a clarifying shampoo once in a while if you use products with silicones in them, and once its long, wearing it up (at least in a braid or ponytail) will help prevent knots, helping you grow it longer.  Most guys I see with long usually choose a braid or ponytail, but I think the world is an open door, you can wear it however you like.  Good luck!

I love my hair played with, it's very relaxing. I don't like it though, if there rough and pulling my hair.

Bob S:  Ha ha!  Hello again!  Yeah, the blonde looked okay, but it was hard to keep it from being too yellow without damaging it more than I wanted to, and I discovered that while blonde may have been a load of fun in my 20s, I've changed so much on the inside that I don't really care how pretty people find me anymore (which is the "not as happy as I thought I'd be"-it just made having to stick chemicals on my head every 3 weeks for roots completely not worth the trouble).  I really don't think I'll go shorter than bsl ever again (barring unusual circomestances), I wouldn't be able to wear buns and hairsticks as easy.  (I love buns and hairsticks!)   
Paper:  Hey girl!  Good to "see" you too!

Pburgh56:  Thanks so much for letting me know you're enjoying my site!  Those kinds of complements make it worthwhile!  Maybe I'll stick a new picture up soon, I didn't think there'd be any interest in shorter hair, but it seems there might be.  I know you will love your hair long!

Alisa06- your post has a great message and thanks :) I really dont care what anyone thinks as long as im happy with my long locks thats all that matters :)