Do Men Only Care About Women With Great Hair?

Well connie you certainly got alot of feedback.
My Idea on womens hair length is short hair is sholder length,and long hair is anything below the shoulders.I have seen some new styles this summer that are chin length that look very nice on alot of women.
Alot of women look better in short hair,but alot look good in long hair as well.I always like the change in season long in the winter short in the summer.I always like the change.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I just happen to like women with beautiful hair. It doesn't necessarily hafta be long but I prefer hair shoulder length or longer. That's not to say I don't like women with shorter hair but long hair is something that is an attraction for me personally.....it's not the only thing but it's something I like on a women. Some men are attracted to the color or a women's hair so preferences vary. The last thing I want to see on a women would be some butch, buzz cut hairdo aka androgenous thing or a mullet....I'd walk by and do my best not to Laff my Ass off.

Ladies if ya wanna attract the opposite sex but ya like short hair at least try to look a little on the feminine side with some wipsy hair or something. Don't fret there's someone out there for everyone or alotta fish in the sea so to speak.

I would say that men who only value women for really long hair are jerks. . . but I have such a strong preference for short-haired girls that some people have accused me of the reverse of the same thing, so I guess there are extremes in everything. . .

> Hey all,> I have to bitch about this. I was at a bar on Friday> night and there was a woman with dark hair to her> knees there. A large number of men in the place were> fighting for a chance to get close to her. I asked one> guy about it and he said that long hair is the most> alluring thing about woman. It really pissed me off> (with my chin length do).> Is that true? Do men really only care about hair?> I am disgusted if this is true.> I refuse to get extensions over this.Well for anyone who's actually followed this far into the thread to see this message, I'd like to state my view on this issue. I personally love really short hair on women. A lot(but not all) of women look very sexy with really short hair, such as some of the styles Sarah MacLachlan has had. I love it. It drives me crazy. But I think it does depend on the woman though. Some women look best with longer hair. Do what you want to do don't do it for someone else. Be yourself.

Juna,While I agree with you that David seems quite angry, I regret to saythat you are mistaken about my preferences regarding hair length.I find long hair on women to be aesthetically pleasing -- much moreso than short hair. My reply to Connie was intended to help her togain insight into her experience.While I feel (IMHO) that short hair generally does not flatter awoman's appearance, I realize and accept that it is the individual'sright to wear their hair as they choose.Although I may sometimes fail, I always try my best to be considerate,courteous, and polite when dealing with ALL people -- no matter theirhair length. It's part of basic human decency and civility.Hope this clears things up. And hope I didn't disappoint you.Dave

I think that there is a somewhat more generic explanation to this phenomenon.Men are fundamentally visual creatures. When a woman does something to her appearance that makes her standout from the rest of the women in the room, men will notice. If it is *attractive* or considered *sexy* or *exotic* she will receive a lot of attention. While those areas are somewhat subjective, she will receive more than her fair share of attention, glances, offers to dance, what have you. It is also not unusual for women who have taken a more conventional approach to notice and be dismayed with the men who react in that fashion, and even to the "perpetrator" herself. This tendency is not just long hair related. You can see it with women who have shaved their heads, unusual hair color, hair styles, or even clothing.In my case, my wife is often the odd one. She has longer hair that she loves to wear in updos. While at work, she uses basic clips and braids, but after hours or socially she tends to wear it done fairly elegantly. At a bar or club, she is often the only woman there with than kind of hair style, and get a noticeable reaction.I am not a hair fetishist, and have learned to tolerate her "vice". At first I too was annoyed at the attention it garnered, but I learned to deal with it. Men are what they are, some are just more polite about it than others. When the very different looking lady walks into the room, my head turns too, I just don’t stare or for that matter pant, as some males do. Its not just hair length.I agree with your final point , no hair extensions, but no whining about the male nature either.- Bo=========================================> Hey all,> I have to bitch about this. I was at a bar on Friday> night and there was a woman with dark hair to her> knees there. A large number of men in the place were> fighting for a chance to get close to her. I asked one> guy about it and he said that long hair is the most> alluring thing about woman. It really pissed me off> (with my chin length do).> Is that true? Do men really only care about hair?> I am disgusted if this is true.> I refuse to get extensions over this.

Hi, Karen!Great question. I have been through this a few times with boyfriends. I have to tell you that I think that I have been more self-conscious about this than them. I seem to just push it away from my face. The ponytail thing is just too easy:)Also, I have to say that most men kinda like it:) I would say from personal experience LJ is in the majority. In fact, the last boyfriend I had asked me what I was doing pushing my hair away when we started to kiss. My current boyfriend, well, he likes to drape it around him. MMM....maybe that's a solution [big grin]All the Best,Jade21OK...here is an appropriate time to talk about this> topic and see what people have experienced.> Do any of you find that long hair gets in the way of> kissing? I have found this to be a problem at times. I> know this sounds a little goofy but long bushy hair> does seem to be a little bit of a nusiance at times.> I like the point here about hair getting in the way at> times. :-) I am not saying that I should cut my hair.> In fact, I wish it would just get to where I want it> and then I could stop waiting for it to grow. :-)> However, I am just curious if anyone else has> experienced "this hair in the way"> phenomena? Your solution was?> Karen

Um, ... personally, I _like_ it when hair gets in the way of kisses. It doesn't stop the kiss, but makes it even more erotic.(except for the pulling-damp-follicles-free-afterwards part) >;-)> OK...here is an appropriate time to talk about this> topic and see what people have experienced.> Do any of you find that long hair gets in the way of> kissing? I have found this to be a problem at times. I> know this sounds a little goofy but long bushy hair> does seem to be a little bit of a nusiance at times.> I like the point here about hair getting in the way at> times. :-) I am not saying that I should cut my hair.> In fact, I wish it would just get to where I want it> and then I could stop waiting for it to grow. :-)> However, I am just curious if anyone else has> experienced "this hair in the way"> phenomena? Your solution was?> Karen

OK...here is an appropriate time to talk about this topic and see what people have experienced.Do any of you find that long hair gets in the way of kissing? I have found this to be a problem at times. I know this sounds a little goofy but long bushy hair does seem to be a little bit of a nusiance at times.I like the point here about hair getting in the way at times. :-) I am not saying that I should cut my hair. In fact, I wish it would just get to where I want it and then I could stop waiting for it to grow. :-)However, I am just curious if anyone else has experienced "this hair in the way" phenomena? Your solution was?Karen

This is a very good point. However, I would never say to some guy in a bar, "I think firm buts are the most atractive thing about guys". I think that would just be disrespectful.