Help colored hair too dark..lol

Hello everyone.  Glad to meet you all. I'm a stay at home mother of 3. I am naturally a strawberry/blond with fine hair.  I recently dyed it a rich auburn......way too dark...lol But I am hoping it will fade quicky. I get lectured alot for coloring my hair, because my natural hair is a lovely color, but I need a change every now and then. Also with my hair being so fine, coloring it adds texture.  I am alway busy with hubby and sons, but I need to liven things up...you know what I mean.  Not much money to go to hairdressers. I need to lighten it somewhat. I feel like I'm glowing in the dark.....lol