Frizzy, thin hair.

First let me start by saying that I really hate my hair.

Whenever I take a shower, it turns out frizzy, thin, and annoying. I have naturally thin hair, and I want to keep it sort of medium/long hair like this.

http://z.about.com/d/mensfashion/1/5/m/2/jv_9s.jpg

Yet, I am deathly afraid I cant grow longer hair, because it will just look terrible. I'm really not sure how I should keep my hair. When it's really short, It's managable with abit of gel, but the longer it gets the more annoying it gets. If there is anyone out there with really fine/frizzy hair that has grown it longer, could they please tell me how it looks? what happens?

Thank you.

Not really "Thin" probably "Fine" would be a better word.
When it's just natural it dosent look good at all.

-Out of shower/Natural/Frizzy-

http://img177.imageshack.us/img177/8782/dsc006337ej.jpg
http://img406.imageshack.us/img406/2987/dsc006342gk.jpg

-Gel'ed/Styled-

http://myspace-848.vo.llnwd.net/00697/84/86/697706848_l.jpg