Terribly Sad Story, help?

When i was really little I used to have the most gorgeous long silky brown hair... I got my hair highlighted for the first time when i was about 11 years old, because at the time it was the coolest thing a little girl could do in colombia, south america (where i live). Last year I highlighted so much It looked blonde, and straightened an infinite amount of times. After a bunch of yrs of much abuse i finaly gave my hair a break and to make a really long story short ive gone natural again, no heat, no nothing. Now im just recovering from the bad haircut that turned my hair all different lenghts and made me take my all natural vow. Its amazingly better now, and looks pretty good for all the damageits gone thru. The problem is, theres this 1 girl in my class with loooong silky straight hair.. its the most beautiful thing uve ever seen! And i cant stand it how she just lets it airdry every single daaayyy, and never EVER puts anything in it... And i have to keep doing a gazillion things just to make mine look halfway decent. I have a baaaaad urge to use that blow dryeragain, and right now im so disappointed. I know my hair is so much better that before, but theres the back which is still sooo dry and frizzyish that im about to go to the evil side again... i need some support!

 

Personally, I still think the long silky pin-straight hair that airdries perfectly is better than my own wavy hair that needs tons of products to get rid of the frizz.  But I suppose the grass is always greener on the other side.

 

Don't stress out about it.  And if you use the blowdryer once or twice, it won't be the end of the world.

 

HTH!

~Katja