man`s styling dilemma

I posted this in the "Men`s Hair" category, but I thought I would post it here, too, for anyone who might be able to give advice who doesn`t normally read the men`s page. I am a 28 year-old white male with a wide face and a high forehead. My outer face shape, as far as I know is a combination of square and round; wide but soft around the edges. My hair started getting thinner and slightly receding in front where I needed it to the least. When I comb it all forward caesar style, it masks the high forhead and thinning but makes my already wide face look wider. When I comb it back more, it "elongates" my face, but exposes the forehead and thinning, and the result is that I look like the missing member of the Munsters! I have large eyes, a round nose, small rounded lips (my mouth is only slightly wider than my nose), and a small weak chin that my goatee hides. Can anyone devise a hairstyle that camouflages my hair loss, softens my billboard of a forehead, and, at the same time, flatters my less-than-perfect face and head shape. I hope someone out there is reeeeeaaally creative!