toner help??

Hi, I have actually 2 questions. First, I bleached underneath my hair & another mid section. How do I know what color toner to use? I would like, a pretty blonde, but not WHITE, I would like some color to it...I would also like to know how often you have to re apply the toner,since I have no experience with toners.

Second question is, when my hair is wet, its VERY mushy, I know its fried! I'm using cholesterol to put some protein back in it..but what else can I do to make sure my hair doesn't break off?

Thanks in advance everyone!

If your hair's mushy, that's not a good sign at all. You'll have to resort to protein treatment to bring your hair back to 'health'. Nexxus Emergencee or Aphogee Reconstructor would do the trick but moisturize your hair afterwards because protein treatments are very drying. Trim your hair a little so it'll look healthier. As for toners, I would suggest you to go with Born Blonde toners, Roux Fanci-full Rinse or purple shampoo because of the condition of your hair rather than toners relying on developer for permanent color.