Question, need help.

Well i training my hair to be flat, I wear a beanie when im around the house and before I go to sleep. When i wake up, my hair is flat except for the hair on the back of my head, and the little spiral where the hair grows. Is there any way I can make them go down? I tried blow drying them and what not and nothing has worked. I also have short hair, I have a taper fade with a 4 or 5 on top. Help please!