HELP? PRODUCTS FOR AIR DRIED HAIR

I am just about at my wit's end...I have tried what feels like a million hair products....I highlight my hair blonde...and I ALWAYS air dry my hair. It is neck length, fine texture, but very thick. Does ANYONE know a product I should use to put in my hair after I wash it (I wash twice a week but I wet it and condition it every day) to give it moisture and hold while it air dries?

 

I use Jonathan Silky dirt creme after it is dry which works well but I need something to fight the frizzies and keep it soft while it air dries. Otherwise I overuse the Jonathan product and then it gets greasy! HELP????

 

And any suggestions on shampoo and conditioner would be nice also. I use Rusk Healthy shampoo and conditioner and also Phyto. Phyto is great but super expensive. Has anyone tried the Biolage Delicate care shampoo?