Exactly how long is your hair?

Hi.

This post is not meant to be rude to anyone, so please do not take it that way.

I am writing to ask about length. My hair is four feet long. When I wear it down, I get many wonderful compliments, but I also hear things like "Oh, my wife's hair is longer than yours." But I've seen the hair these people are referring to, and it is not longer than mine.
The middle section is.

The rest is broken off and different lengths from wearing it down so much and brushing it all of the time. Do you consider long hair to be more attractive when it is all the same length or different lengths?

I have seen women with only a few strands in the middle say the length to be long, when in fact I don't consider it to be. I cut my hair straight across always. I don't mean a round cut on the other women, I'm talking about abused hair all different lengths and scraggly. It also looks very thin.

Am I the only one who thinks this way?
Also, how does one measure hair? I've heard from the top of the forehead. I measure from the back of my head down. Which is correct?
Not trying to be rude,
Karen Marie

Hi Karen Marie....
You've raised an interesting question about what 'long hair' means! I have to agree with you that one length (even if it tapers) is much more beautiful than a range of lengths, many broken or damaged. I've seen your pics and your hair is an excellent example of stunning one length tresses....

As for measuring...I think the accepted method - and one advocated by George Michael - is to measure from the front hair line - and if we all do the same at least it means we can compare...my hair is 36.5 inches (which on me is waist length).
Happy growing....
Chris

Chris bring up a good point about waist lenght. For me my bangs are 24 inches long and the back is 29 inches long and it just past my waist. I am not that tall.
I have a half circle type of look and I prefer it that way.

Outstanding Diane! Glad to hear you still have long, gorgeous hair. Still waiting for a photo, however, after all these years.

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