Help me please.. :)

Wanna get me hair like either of these pics, preferably the second one..

http://www.frutsel.terrainhost.com/frutselapp/dump/lukazan/beckham19_jpg.jpg

http://www.frutsel.terrainhost.com/frutselapp/dump/lukazan/beckham_1024.jpg

I'm sure you recognise the man.. :D

My hair is pretty similar to his, the only problem is when I try and push the front fringe bit to the side like his, I get loose little bits of hair fall down and it looks abit.. poop. :D

Will using straighteners and pulling the hair that way, then blow drying it help at all?

I am currently using Dax Wax, it's very strong, probably the best Wax I have ever used, but is there any other product you an suggest which might work better?

Thanks in advance for your replies,
Toodles.