OT Howlong would you wait before freaking

out about not getting an ebay shipment?
I bought and paid for it two weeks ago.  Three or four days ago I sent mail to the vendor asking if she had sent it.  Still nothing.  I don't think my spam filter has caught any correspodence (I've tried looking but as much spam as I get its hard to find the false postivies in the junk file).  It's coming regular USPS from HI to RI which is a long fricking way.  I really don't care about how long it takes as long as I know what's going \on.  She had all good feedback.  I'm just uptight right?

I'll check for a #, she did have a notice that she wouldn't be putting as much up for sale as usual since she was in the process of moving.  And with USPS it really could be ona slow boat from hawaii.

I had hoped (though not relied ) on getting this shipment before going on vacation at the end of next week.

I think I'm going to put in HH the day before we leave (alsot he day before the bachelor party).  I'm making some clip ins in various colors to wear with it both for the bachelor parties and the wedding.  I bought a dress Friday and happen to have some wefted PH in a mathcing color sitting around.  Didn't even realise it til I was leaving the mall.  So that pretty much solved itself.  I'm just going to put the HH in on loc'd wefts.  Should be quick and easy.