QuoteReplyTopic: Nice compliment on my hair Posted: January 28 2004 at 6:20pm
I disagree with u on that one.If u have a big head then very short close to the scalp cuts wouldnt be best 4 u because actually if u do have a big head your better off getting a long flowy cut with not 2 much volume just 2 take most of the focuse off of your head and with volume that brings your hair out more fulfilling that.
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Tina, I've seen you on the long and short hair boards. I know you like to come and visit us.. I was just curious to know how short your hair is. I think some people look better with short and vice versa, I personally just like long for myself!
Shinydome: You indeed do sound very brave and adventurous! A woman after my own heart. My wife has also experimented with a shaved head. She still wears her hair very short. She looks great either way.
You are braver than I am shinydome. I don't know if I'm quite ready to shave my head. I have to admit, I have seen some bald women who do look stunning. I guess I'll just stay with my short pixie for now. A half inch to an inch of hair is plenty short enough for me.
first of all: i bet jasmin gets a lot of compiments about her very short hair, especially when she dresses up. jasmine, do u wear high-heeled platform sandals too? what do u prefer: skirts or pants?
i had my head shaved several times. i always got a lot of compliments. the complaints (much less than compliments) didn't bother me because i know that i look beautiful and sexy with a freshly shaved head. self-confidence is the best way to show the people how proud you are with your head shaved
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Even if you don't need anyone's approval, sometimes it still feels good to hear compliments. So long as you're not helpless to make your own decisions without askign others, and you're not basing your decisions solely on what other people think, I guess you're all right.
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Its great to get unsolicited compliments like that!
I like to think I don't want or need anyone's approval when it comes to my hair but that said...... I expected my friends to say nice things about my hair when I got it cut whether they liked it or not but I was feeling sort of insecure about it so I didn't know if I believed them or not.......no matter I told myself its just great to have friends that are supportive.
When two of my friends decided to cut their hair short soon after seeing mine I knew they really did like it and I have to say it makes me love my short hair now. I guess I like peoples' approval more than I want to admit.
On these boards, there is often a message that's there's something wrong with wanting/needing the approval of others or doing something trendy. The most important thing is to be happy with yourself, but it's okay to let other people influence you. That may make you insecure, but it's also a recognition you live on a planet with other people. I care what my friends and girlfriend think. Sometimes, they're smarter than I am. I know my girlfriend is. She tells me.
Making a decision only because of what other people tell you means you're not thinking for yourself. Ignoring what other people tell you is self-centered. Listening and taking good ideas is well-rounded.
Its great to get unsolicited compliments like that!
I like to think I don't want or need anyone's approval when it comes to my hair but that said...... I expected my friends to say nice things about my hair when I got it cut whether they liked it or not but I was feeling sort of insecure about it so I didn't know if I believed them or not.......no matter I told myself its just great to have friends that are supportive.
When two of my friends decided to cut their hair short soon after seeing mine I knew they really did like it and I have to say it makes me love my short hair now. I guess I like peoples' approval more than I want to admit.
Yes Tony, it probably does seem less threatning to a woman if it is a man who is with a woman giving the compliment to another woman.
But then again the woman you are with might not like that, but that was not the case with the guy and woman who complimented me, they both seemed interested in my short hairstyle.
That sounds nice Tina. It is good to get such a compliment. I get a compliment on my super-short afro once in a while from the people who love short hair on women or just people who like the look on me. I get compliments more often when I'm dressed up and wearing hoop or long earrings.
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