HELP my hair is out of control

Hi! Because your hair is so dry at the ends heres a few tips:
~Everyday rub a few drops of olive oil in your hair(The tips, if you put it in the roots it will look greasy...and don't put alot in one spot.)
~Don't shampoo your hair everyday,just get it wet every other day.
~If you swim a lot wash your hair after you swim and get it wet before.
~Get a trim every 6-8 weeks.
~Use a good shampoo and conditioner.

Some styles are...
~Get the "wet look" with gel and some water, pull it back onto a ponytail (Without the clip, just hold it like you would a ponytail) flip it up and secure with LOTS of butterfly clips.
~Twist your hair in front like a lot of girls wear it(5 or 6 twists halfway back on the front top and sides of your head)and hold with butterfly clips
~If you want, do the above and twist into a (messy) bun.
~Try parting your hair somewhere different.
~Try a crooked part.

Some Frizz control tips are:
~DON'T brush your hair when it's wet or you cause breakage and make more frizzes.
~If you HAVE to, lip gloss will hold them back.
~The obvious...gell or hairspray...try putting them in while it's wet, styling your hair, and then adding more after its dry.
~Sometime a dryer sheet will work...puy it on top of your head for a few seconds...it keeps off static.

***WHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT LAYER YOUR HAIR!!!!***
Email me w/ the results (good or bad)

i would like a new style but i don't know what i can do with my hair is about sholder length and really thick it frizzy. And also oily at the scalp but very dry at the tips if you any ideas or help please tell me