I agree why is there so much arguments.

Hi Diane,Thanks for your post. I can't speak for anyone else here, but my opinion is that people are just sharing their thoughts and I don't think it is anyone's intention to attack anyone else.Sometimes email can be misread. The problem with it is that you can't see someone's facial expressions to know that they are just chatting and not being attacking or hostile or anything else.I personally value your opinion and I value the fact that this board is so open and uncensored (for the most part) and that people are free to share themselves. Just like you share your pain and your happiness and your thoughts.When people share here, they are giving of themselves. That is a wonderful gift and I for one am constantly appreciative of all the good things that come from Hair Talk.My opinion is that no one is attacking anyone. Just sharing thoughts. May I recommend that if you feel someone is being hurtful in any way (on Hair Talk) that you send them a private email and express your feelings? I bet that would give you some amazing discoveries about people. I bet you would also discover that they mean no harm and are just chatting and sharing their feelings.Thanks for sharing. Sorry about your job. Sometimes life just hands us curve balls. You seem like a strong lady and I know you will make this work for you in a new and better way.Best wishes,Karen> My only concern when I shown up in this site> was the address why most short hair women tell> long hair women to cut their hair. For reason> some short hair woman felt afttack . I didn't> attack anyone. I was expressing how frustrating> it is for us long hair people. The most important> part that I wanted to talk about that most of> you ignored and its very important is why society> is against long hair people? Like at many professional> career that will actually make you sign a contract> if you are male that you won't have a beard or> long hair. Look what we long hair women are told> all the time that when we reach 40 we should cut> our hair and if anyone thinks that long hair isn't> attractive around 40 then you should check out> the beautiful women on the long hair site. Okay> I said I don't want to know a man that doesn't> desire long hiar as for me its not normal . I> have a right to think that way. I don't want to> know a man that comes up to me and says "> cut your hair". Luckily I know mamny many> men who loves long hair on women. To end this> I was addressing Stephen about his comments only.> He made some rude comments about long hair. People> are too quick to judge what a person says and> they don't reread things and really try to understand> where this other person is coming from. That bothered> me as I am very people-oriented. I lost a job> because the president couldn't handle the fact> that her husband ( my boss) had this thing about> my long hair etc. Why hasn't more people on this> site support and add on their view about this> injuctice? Do you think it can't happen to you?> No it was easier to attack me because I am a strong> believer of long hair. Shouldn't you admire someone> that stands so committed to something and not> try to knock down someone.? Like I said why would> I be against short hair when my family like my> sister is short hair ? I brought up many good> topicss. Okay I am human and I might have made> a mistake by expressing my thoughts on this site.> I also came on this site to defend you guys about> David and I wasn't understood until Dave defended> me. My life isn't surrounded by this site but> next time you decide to make up your opinnions> try to think three times to see why the other> person says these things. I couldn't believe the> reactions and yet the most important issues were> brushed under the carpet. Think if I angers you> so much than you should ask why? I was also the> one that mentioned that hair is an expression> of the inner self and yet some person totally> forgot about that. NO I am not angry with some> people. It takes real serious problems to bring> out a real reaction from me. This is not serious.>