the injustice toward men in our society

Hi Ladies,I have to make this quick, my husband is in the room.I never really thought about long hair on men until I got a kiss from the Ultimate Romance Man - FABIO.I went to a book signing a few years ago in San Antonio. If you don't or do like long hair on men, find this one, he will change your mind regardless. And it's worth it just to look at him.Having Fun,Debbie

> Hi, Diane!> I think you are definitely going through a variety of> changes. I have read so many of your messages of late> and have found them all quite interesting, even if I> didn't agree with all of them.> Along some line, I would just like to say that I don't> think society ought to lighten up on men or women.> Life and society are constantly changing. If they> didn't, I think we would have more problems. Life has> a way of working itself out in one form or another.> People should criticize and caress each other.> I am glad you have changed your opinion about men with> long hair. I can understand your army background> influencing you greatly. I can honestly say that I> have a somewhat skewed view about men with shorter> hair. I used to hate men who wore crewcuts or were> bald. I still can't understand why any man would> willingly wear a crewcut. Anyway, I came to realize,> like you, that just because a man had short hair or> none he wasn't a fascist or extremely conservative:)> When one of my best friends chopped off his locks this> summer to beat the heat, I told him that I didn't> particularly like guys with short or no hair. His> reply: I don't like long-haired women without> opinions. We both had a good laugh. By the way, he> actually looked quite sexy.....> Take care of yourself and ride the tide of change...> JadeHello Jade,I find it interesting you would think that society shoudn't ligthen up on hair. You do realize that I was talking about hair because its very unfair to not allow a long hair man to wear his hair in certain professions as its very unfair that some women get opinions about how their hair look. I haven't seem this changes in the professional careers yet and I really don't think it will happen soon.Thank you for your reply and we all don't need to agree to everyone opinions on this site. If I would post something just to be like by everyone then its not honest is it. YOu can't please everyone as people see all kinds of ways .

> I posted a tilte on the long hair site and I said that> I would never go out with a man with long hair and of> course I was told to take out with Victor and I never> did. It was based on another posting. Long story.> One long hair man read this comment and emailed me and> said something like " let me get this straight if> an attractive man come up to you wearing a hat that is> covering his hair and he invites you to dinner and you> happen to like him and go out with him, would you> change your mind all of sudden as you are both in the> restaurant he takes off his hat and he has long hair?> I had to really think what the helll was wrong with> me. Of course while I thinking I happen to driving> around and I spotted at least five attractive males> witih long hair Murphy's law .I realize what my> problem was . It was upbringing , the community I grew> up etc. My father was in the army and you all know the> attitude etc.> So of course I started to think, if this attractive> man had no hair, short hair or long hair it would all> the same guy that I happen to agree to go out to the> restaurant so I realized that I had the same attitude> toward long hair men as some people have toward us> long hair females except for the fact there are> professions that will actually have in contract that> lomg hair on men and beards are not permitted.> I will actually telll you that I am not a punk a poo> that is very young and I still a product from the old> school. If I can change my mind and realize the damage> that is being done then I think there hope because I> was a tough cookie to crack.> This only makes six months that I have this new> attitude and I am voicetress in society when there is> injustice so believe me I will not be quiet.> Hair is such a huge sensitive subject for mem. Take my> brother, PLease ( laughing)> His hair was thinning and he put in his mind that he> wasn't attractive yet I remember seeing women chase> him and he was so sensitive that had an extension done> etc> The point is men are very sensitve and caring like us> when it comes to many topics eventhough they are from> Mars I really wish that society would lighten up on> men.Hi, Diane!I think you are definitely going through a variety of changes. I have read so many of your messages of late and have found them all quite interesting, even if I didn't agree with all of them.Along some line, I would just like to say that I don't think society ought to lighten up on men or women. Life and society are constantly changing. If they didn't, I think we would have more problems. Life has a way of working itself out in one form or another. People should criticize and caress each other.I am glad you have changed your opinion about men with long hair. I can understand your army background influencing you greatly. I can honestly say that I have a somewhat skewed view about men with shorter hair. I used to hate men who wore crewcuts or were bald. I still can't understand why any man would willingly wear a crewcut. Anyway, I came to realize, like you, that just because a man had short hair or none he wasn't a fascist or extremely conservative:) When one of my best friends chopped off his locks this summer to beat the heat, I told him that I didn't particularly like guys with short or no hair. His reply: I don't like long-haired women without opinions. We both had a good laugh. By the way, he actually looked quite sexy.....Take care of yourself and ride the tide of change...Jade