my hair wony lay down

dats wat im thinkin i dont wanna ovaflow my hair wit products

waz up dream team and others. heres da story man. i used da scurl kit(mistake) and it napped my hair up in about 2 weeks and i cut it all of and now im startin ova wit dat murreys and pink lotion and im startin 2 c a pattern in da back real good but everything else aint poppin like i want. the problem is my hair wont lay down. i got this scurl texturizer gel if i use dat do u think that'll be 2 many products in my hair or will i b straight. thanx