I really need your advice/help please

girl you gotta be patient, it might takes some time for some people to reply, just check this forum time to time to see if anyone is replying.

well if you are planning to darken it to your natural hair colour, a semi or demi permanents is ok. You can even do it yourself but if you had to lighten it, you might wanna reconsidered and leave it to the pros. Just make sure you deep condition your hair twice a week now coz it has been dyed twice and it might be dry now.

I really need your advice!
First I will update you: I have really curly hair so I got a childrens relaxer in July. This calmed my hair down and it was much easier to control.

Then I went to get my hair cut at a Beauty School ( I'm a student and I was low on cash), the girl offered to color my hair so I said "Why Not"

BAD IDEA

my hair is now a dark burgandy color, its a pretty color just not right for me. I really want to geo to a more natural color because I fear I look like a clown. I cringe everytime I look in the mirror and don't want to go outside. I just got it colore a few days ago, can I get it redyed considering my history? If I get a demi-color will my hair fall out?