what about flowers in the hair?

The other day I happen to come across city line. This is a Toronto Canada base show that shows home fashions etc and they had this stylist on the show showing all kinds of styles for weddings for long hair and short hair ladies. Anyways what I really thought was a great idea was when the stylist mentioned that we should pick a stylist or the current stylist we have and have them style our hair before the wedding for example for an outting so that we can easily judge if the style is what we want or not. The stylist mentioned not to pick the exact style that we want for the wedding but something similar. The stylist also suggested that we bring all the pictures that pleases us and also the ones that we hate. What he really suggested if we don`t have much money is to keep our hairstyle simple but put the money in getting someone to apply our makeup professionally so that our pictures will be perfect.

I am getting married and I am very excited. My children love him. This is my second marriage and will have a beautiful extended family. My first time I did the traditional method of wearing white and my hair was above my shoulders. This time I want something very simple with only the children. ( feel like the brady bunch lol)
I have thick, wavy dark brown hair. I will probably wear something very victorian and with lots of lace but not a wedding dress. I was also thinking of flowers in my hair. What do you think?