Before you do anything!!!

Thanks for the compliment Jules, nice of you to say so! And, I have no intention of having any kind of surgery.  As for our opinions above, on this whole topic,  I'm not sure many people would admit they agree with us! (But, I bet they do!)

I laughed out loud when I read your post in response to mine Jules! I guess I must be used to my boobs, but I wouldn't call them huge! I think boobs can look ugly if too big. I measure 41" around, sometimes 42" depending on any weight gains. And take a 36E bra. I hear the HUGE girls (implants) can be much more massive than that. I have considered having some taken off, as they get in the way a bit, but that op is not always successful. Lopsidedness, is one of the main problems. But, I keep them firm.

I think smaller boobs are just as good as any other kind (natural). Variation in body shapes, are always better and interesting, and if everyone looked the same with large breasts, it would be the norm to want smaller ones. It  must be getting boring for men to hanker after large breasted women, only to find they are false. No matter how natural they may look in clothes, they do not ever, when exposed.

I'm pleased you have become satisfied with your breasts, and especially as your husband is happy about it too. False men like false breasts. Like Hugh Hefner, who insists his girlfriends have implants. Yuck! What a weird man! I hope this trend will change, as it will make young girls and very slim girls, so much happier with themselves. And, so they should be!

And, as for thinking they are not women enough! How many men have huge shoulders, v-shaped backs, and large pecs! Not to mention the big biceps! (My man has, incidentally) And, those men do not think themselves less of men. Men come in all shapes, and so should women. It's the hype and way the media conducts itself that make some women feel as if they lack what it takes. I have known many men who told me they prefer small breasts to large ones, natural or not. It's just that they feel they have to agree with the hype so they can appear to be 'real' men who have these raging hormones! The kind real women hate actually!

Hal wrote: I think I would need to see a link to this study before I believe you could get 87% of guys to say they dislike bigger boobs! Men are ALL visual!

This survey is true! Men much prefer REAL breasts. Large breasts are hard to ignore, but the shape is so obviously false, and not as nice as real breasts, even the small ones.  The top of the cleavage ALWAYS has a gap with implants. So there is no proper cleavage when the breasts are not pressed together tightly. These breasts also hang differently, like two balls. It is not as nice looking as real breasts, although sagging real ones are not too impressive either. Not to mention the tell-tale dents, that, if not there after the surgery, soon happen over time.

I have come across many surveys, and also in my own experience in show-business, (I am a performer, previously a model, all natural assets,) have found men not to be enamoured with artificial breasts. After all, any man can have his own breasts, if he got implants!

 Women, no matter if they are small or not, can look damn sexy depending on what they wear. A shapely body, with firm breasts of any size, and a lovely face with great hair, is always going to be a winner above abnormally large breasts. And, the girl is always going to look more sophisticated.

I know, as my large natural, firm breasts, make me look like a porn star because I love to wear tight clothes. Indeed, I have to, so that my small waist and hips can be seen, or I would look huge all over! Ugh!

I really wish women did not torture themselves. Natural, of ALL sizes is best! Concentrate more on all over shape. Regular trips to the gym does it everytime. Especially, when started young.

 I figured they were,but they look pretty good.

 I used to be like a double A,LOL. For some reason mine got bigger as I near my thirties and are now a very small C. I'd like them to be perkier though~I remember a while back they had something called "the permante bra" but I think they have stopped doing it.

Yeah,really flat people shouldnt get them that big cuz it looks gross when the skin is all stretched like that.

  Some people do look very good with them. My one aunt's are are so natural looking you'd never know and she's ahd hers for like,15 years now. I do know quite a few people whose look too much like basketballs though.

 I actually know alot of guys who think breast implants DONT look good as well! My husband calls them water balloons.

I think people should do what makes them happy,but shouldnt do it for a man.Not all men care for them. Natural breasts are becoming a much bigger deal with magazines like perfect 10.

And I do agree with be happy with what GOD gave you. Breast implants are still not completely safe and carry many risks.many need to be replaced with 5-10 years.

I'll chime in here...hope I don't piss anyone off real good!

Love yourself...do what makes you happy...live your life...learn through experience!

And...I don't see too many friends advising eachother to put the Big Mac down, stop smoking, or...fill in your own blank________!

"I work at pleasin' me 'cause I can't please you, and that's why I do what I do" -Erykah Badu

They aren't telling them what to do ..they're being concerned about their "friends" by giving then the truth. A real "friend" wouldn't let someone risk their life for an image.