thanx fullxdiva. its jes that my hair was growin in uneven in the back near the nape of my neck. i dont know y it grew that way. for that reason, i didnt wanna edge it up, cuz it would look crooked. so i let it grow so that i could get an edge that was on point by the time i was seen around alotta ppl. everything is edged up now, and i plan to keep it that way. so i was really tryin to let my hair grow so that i could get a good edge for my own self esteem. those were great words of wisdom tho, and i think that many others as well as me should of heard them. (females were all over me last night rubbin my hair.. it was ridiculous lol.)
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i guess i was really waitin on sumthin to come up when id have to go out in front of alotta ppl, so my edge would be on point. thanx
i'll let you in on how i got my name (fullxdiva), b/c i'm in the military i wear my bdu's everyday, and my hair is usually slicked to my head but i wear a tapered fade in the back, and i get it cut every week, one of my top priorities, and men will ask me why my fade looks better than theirs.
so whenever i put "clothes" on and do my hair, ppl always think i'm dressed up. they see me as dressed up, i see me as comfortable and being myself. it's just who i am and the way i choose to carry myself, i don't dress and keep my hair up to impress anybody, i do it first and foremost for me, strictly to feel good about myself, and if i'm trying to impress i'll put in a lil extra work. but ppl always say look at the diva, here come the diva, you think you a diva don't you, and i say "full time". thus came the name fullxdiva.
so in saying all that, my point is that you don't have to wait till something comes up to be about you. make it habit to take care of you and your habit will become who you are. one of my favorite sayings is "if you stay ready you never have to get ready".
think about it like this- if you went somewhere and you were in front of a lot of people, (women) you were dressed clean from head to toe, BUT you didn't have time to get an edge up, would you still feel completely good about yourself?
When you set the standards you never have to compare or compete with others, it's yours they want to emulate .
that smiley is crazy, and i gave myself a shape up that same night i read ur advice. i guess i was really waitin on sumthin to come up when id have to go out in front of alotta ppl, so my edge would be on point. thanx
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sho you right, i never looked at it that way. i guess when i really want to wear them i'll do what i have to, in order to get em in. i'll be poppin em in like homie ova here --->
sho you right, i never looked at it that way. i guess when i really want to wear them i'll do what i have to, in order to get em in. i'll be poppin em in like homie ova here --->
aight sjay i saw the pics, looking good man, imma give you my two cents even tho you aint ask me fo it, in the back almost at the nape of the your neck looks like where your rag stops or ties off, your hair looks thinner or uneven, could be just the way it looks on the pics, a fix could possibly be to fade that part out a lil bit and blend in with your cut, you could do a taper fade or a fade with sharp line and you'll be on point.
i tried putting those darn contacts in, but i can only get one eye in and that takes me about 15 mins, and i can never get the other eye in, so i stick to my glasses.
jes click on my www icon, and u can see my most current pix on webshots. the ones wit paul mitchell lotion are the most current. my eyes are green. their contacts, but ppl always think theyre real. i hypnotize women wit them lol jk.
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why u ova here trying to hide in your own lil folder, i see .......you don't wanna post wit da rest of da pics till you ready to live up to signature huh? just spinning outta control , till you make em' dizzy just looking at dem' waves. well it looks like you getting there, keep dat line clean and tight. are your eyes hazel?
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