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    Posted: August 11 2005 at 7:20pm
I know that sometimes I donot pronounce my words correctly and I KNOW that I make many mistakes on here!  Also in diferent parts of the USA we speak diferently also.  (We won't get into that though!).  Dave are you a teacher by any chance? LOL!  If so, I will try and make sure there are no errors in my grammer! LOL!  But my spelling---I cannot do anything about that - I still blame it on these bifocals!  AHHH!!!  Another happy ending on here! 
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Originally posted by eKatherine eKatherine wrote:

Definitely sounds like a non-native speaker.


Ragdoll is posting from within the United States.  So, there are two possibilities, as I see it: (1) eKath is correct, or (2) ragdoll's native language is English, but her command of the language isn't quite top notch.  Either way, Ragdoll's comment wasn't phrased in a way to prevent confusion.

And Mels, her words were "I just have it trim"   As it is, it doesn't quite make sense.  Possibilities:

"I just have it trimmed"
"I just have a trim"
"I just had a trim"
"I just had it trimmed"

Have or had, trim or trimmed... we were all left to guess what she really meant.  No matter, we all clearly understand now what she did.

Okay, end of my nit-picky language dissection. 

P.S. Thank you muchly for the compliment, Mels!


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So, the deed is done. I could sense your urgency! As short styles go, I think well-cut bobs look very nice on many women. My own wife looked good with a bob as she was growing out her pixie, but after one maintenance cut, she decided to keep growing b/c it took too her too much time to style it. Good luck, Bob 

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I was answering a question somebody ask me. What i did when I had long hair. It was upkeep on when I had long hair.

My hair is now chin length .



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Definitely sounds like a non-native speaker.

It seems that the time to say "no regrets" will probably come sometime in the future. Do you have before and after pictures?


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Originally posted by DaveDecker DaveDecker wrote:


There's a large difference between "I just had it trimmed" and "I just have it trimmed" and given the difference in verb tense it's no wonder I was confused.


 

No, Dave. That still makes sense. She's using the past tense because she's describing what she used to do. Now, with short hair, it will probably be different.

By the way...HOLY COW on your photo. Wooooooooooooooow. Holy guacamole. You take such excellent care of your hair. You should be very proud.
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This poor girl. We can't all be Shakespeares. (Actually, Shakespeare's grammar wasn't all that great. It was his vocab that was kick-A.)

I have heard the same thing about American English: It's one of the hardest languages to master (among languages that contain similar letter characters...this leaves out most of the Asian languages). Personally, I love English because it's quirky, unpredictable, difficult, and beautiful. The main reason English (English English, LOL) seems so "mismatched" is that, frankly, it is. Teutonic/Germanic, Latin and ancient Celtic have precious little in common. It's actually pretty amazing that it developed as a language at all.

Okay. Hijack over. :) This poor girl. All she wanted was advice on her hair...

 
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Ya know what they say about the American English Language?  It is complicated!  (That is what I have heard all of my life anyways!). Oh well another happy ending!    Have a nice day ya'll!  Evening I mean!
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Ah, perhaps you are correct, Debbie.  I may have misread her response.

Spelling, verb tense, and punctuation matter!

Ragdoll wrote: " i just had it trim"

In the context of having described hours earlier having a lot cut, her verbatim comment seems inconsistent with "I just had it trim."

There's a large difference between "I just had it trimmed" and "I just have it trimmed" and given the difference in verb tense it's no wonder I was confused.


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Thank you Accolady!  At first I thought I was losing my mind!  No you never know about trolls, but I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt?  (Hmmmm! LOL!).  Debbie
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Hello all,

Debbie, I read it the same way, that she was answering eKatherine's post, though with the rash of trolls and but ten posts from ragdoll, I understand how the confusion came into play.
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She was answering EKatherine post!  When she said she had a trim she had answered EKatherines post on what she had done when she went every 6 weeks.  Re read it again, please.  Dave am I missing something here? 
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yeah first you said, its a chin length bob. now you say you just had it trimmed. im a little confused here
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Originally posted by ragdollragdoll ragdollragdoll wrote:

My hair was butt length and now it is  a chin length curly bob.


Merely six hours later, you post that you just had it trimmed.

So, which is it?  A chop or a trim?
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i just had it trim
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I'm glad you're happy with your new style. There are all different phases in our lives. Some of these phases involve changing our appearance in some way in order to feel different inside. That's okay. I've gone through that before. I'm 38 years old and I'll probably go through it again! It is all correct and good...there's a time for everything. You now have super-healthy hair, so if you do eventually decide you'd like it long again, it will have a great starting point. Hope you enjoy your new style!
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geezzzzzzz guys some the girl some love.. she wanted to change her hair so she did.  Whats wrong with that? 

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Well, I suppose. It sounds a little unreal that you think your long hair required as much upkeep as short hair will. For me it's hard to imagine what you could have been doing that took so much of your time, because my long hair takes hardly any upkeep at all.

And when you were going to the salon every six weeks, what did you have done to your long hair, just curious...


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after taking everybody suggestion in consideration I decide to cut my hair. The only question that that kept coming up from everybody is do I no longer enjoy caring for it.I went to the hairdresser yesterday and made the cut.The answer to the question was i no longer enjoy caring for it. I had made a dramatic cut. My hair was butt length and now it is  a chin length curly bob. I know that if i let it grow long it will take a long time to grow it back to wheree I had it. I have no regrets in cutting it short. I know I will have to do more upkeep on it now but it will be the same amount of upkeep on because my hair is so thick that I have to go to the hairdresser every 6 weeks anyways.

Thank you for all the suggestions I really appriecation them.
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Seeing mutliple posts on your topic suggests that you are serious, yet apprehesive about doing the big cut.

Do you have a specific short hair style you really want or are you just doing this for change with no thought to a style?  Have you tried different short styles out digitally - via a computer program or salon aid to see what suits you the best?  Try a short wig out and see if you like it?

Are you prepared for a lot more upkeep?  Shorter styles do require more styling and more frequent trims than longer ones. 

Am not dissuading you, but consider all of these before you do the big cut. 

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