ranting about being fat

I agree that being under-weight is as unhealthy as being over-weight.

Blance/excersise/good nutrition

 

There are no perfect cures, and even the healthiest of us have to work at it.

I am a vegan, ...still not off the hook,

 

Flo Jo was the fastes women on earth, beacon of health,  and Died of Cardiomeglia /an enlarged heart.........

all you can do is eat right excercise,

 

Obcessed with being underweight is related to psychological things that are not remedied with weight loss., but is more triggered and aggravated by it.

this is going to crack you up

 

"gay designers subconsciously wanted to see boys in dresses, so they got as close as they could by setting rediculous very dangerous standards of beauty, flat chest no curves"

 

I have beautiful cousin who is a Ford Model, she just finished modeling Sarah J. Parkers line, on Oprah.(((her line is sorta goodwillish lookin' for my taste))) any way she is 6'2 and at 135 she was "warned to .....watch it, by her agency......!

can u imagine......being considered overweight 136 , 6'2

4get that crap.....

 

 

 

LOLOLOLOL!

 

That is so true. This whole skinny thing is getting out of control. Women look more anorexic every day. I'm 5'5" and I weight 138lbs and I'm down to a size 4. Granted, everyone carries weight differently, but I can't imagine a 5'4" person being fat at 109lbs. But that is what society is doing to women. With all these celebrities saying on TV "I don't eat", like is a joke, we can't expect anything less.

 

The bad thing is they don't realized how bad this celebrities look in person. My sister works at an airline, and she had to help Sarah Jessica Parker. She called me immediatly. She couldn't believe how bad she looked in real life. She said she looked so old and anorexic she actually felt sorry for her. And she is her biggest fan.

 

Ladies, guys like women with curves!!! Ask Beyoce and JLO LOL! If you are naturaly and ectomorph type body, then that is fine. No matter what you do, you will always be super skinny. But don't try to make yourself that way just because Kate Moss is LOL. It is great to be fit and tone, not skin and bones.

 

Actually you have to be rather small being 5'4" 109lbs. You need more weight 115-125 is a very healthy weight for your height buy more lean meats and do calisthenics to get up to your healthy weight range in a safe manner . You are too small, and you WILL start falling apart earlier in life than you should be so heed my advice and put on another 8-10lbs. You must be watching too much of the simple life with Paris and Nicoles bony selves with all that money lookin like they spent years of hardship in Somalia.

 

And just to comment on the 'am-i-fat' website's typing of me being emaciated... if you could see me in person, you could see that I am healthy as a horse. I have excellent muscle tone, I exercise regularly, and I eat every time I get hungry. I don't starve myself, or deprive myself, and anyone who knows me knows that. I would have to totally let myself go, and eat nothing but junk food for months and months in order to get to 145 lbs. In fact, just to try, I have done these things, and taken in up to 3000 calories a day for over a month, and still didn't put on but a couple of pounds. And I don't know about you, but THAT doesn't seem very healthy to me!!!  As soon as I went back to eating whole foods and lean meats, my weight went right back to my norm.

 

As far as Thisisniccy is concerned, she may very well be an instigator. I haven't read anything else written by her, so I can't say for sure myself. I just think that of all places, the forum called "Diet Days" would have more supportive people on it!

It may not be your idea of what is attractive but how do other people see you? Maybe they think you look great with extra weight. Look at it this way, would you rather starve and go to extremes to be a certain weight and be unhealthy or live a long life and be healthy with a little more weight? I'm not saying you do that because you said you try to eat right and be healthy I am just trying to make that point. I am not fat either. I am the healthy weight for my height. I am 5'4 and 135 pounds.

 

 

HaleyCake wrote: You know what? I am 5'10" tall, and I weigh 115 lbs.  On my small-boned frame, if I put on any more weight, I start to look fleshy around my face, stomach, and backside, and it's just not what I consider attractive.  I have had plenty of people tell me I need to put some meat on my bones, that I should drink regular soda instead of diet (even though I think all the sugar in regular soda is unhealthy), and that I look 'frail.'  But you know what? Those same people are the ones who are griping and complaining about being overweight and having belly bulge. So it makes me wonder...could it perhaps be jealousy that is oozing out of their mouths??? Anyone who knows me knows that I can put food away with the best of them. I just like to eat very healthy, and I refuse to put junk food into my body. I eat large quantities of whole grains, fresh fruits and veggies, and very few things that are loaded down with saturated fat and processed sugar. I drink lots of water every day, avoid things that can cause me health problems in the future, and take vitamins on a daily basis.  Sue me if I don't want to look like a gluttonous pig. Thisisniccy, I think you need to stop looking here for sympathy, because I am afraid that most of the people who are commenting to you are those who are not supportive of other people's weight goals. If being 103 lbs. makes you happy, them work out, eat right, and drop those extra 6 pounds (or more). Do what makes you feel good. Don't listen to fat haters who are trying to discourage you from your weight-loss goals just because they can't achieve theirs. Jus because someone tells you that you "should" weigh a certain amount, doesn't mean it is right for them to do so, and it doesn't make it YOUR ideal weight. Do what makes you feel good, and what is best for you. Don't listen to the discouragement, and you will be able to reach your goal. :)