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    Posted: January 22 2002 at 12:56am
When I was in the military with very long hair, I could secure it in less time than it takes most men to shave (which is requred in the US military.) Potatoes, your sister can learn to put her long hair up very quickly if she wants to keep it badly enough. (Is she in already? What did she decide to do?)

For the record, I would have joined anyway even if I had had to cut my hair. I did not have to, so why should I? Long hair actually ended up being a lot easier to deal with than my friends` hair. They always had to go to the beauty salon to keep it within regs (just like guys have to go to the barber every two weeks or so.) Me, I could just braid, tuck, and go. Even in deployments under less than ideal conditions.
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what`s a combo cover
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I was in the service for awhile. The Navy does not require their female recruits to cut their hair. You just have to keep your hair above and off your collar. It cannot interfere with your cover. Your combo cover is supposed to sit to 1 inch above your ear. Your ball cap is just like any baseball cap. When you wear a male combo cover (for drilling, if you do that) your hair must be entirely inside the cover. I went to a service academy, so the rules for hair might have been a bit different, but they are probably simliar.
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Well Geez TAMMY - we gotta spice it up a little, eh?? ...gabi :=)
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wow, goodness gracious, all this over hair? =)
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Back atcha!! Hey we have emoticons, yay.

I`ll try the Bm private message thing - Happy New Year...gabi
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I never thought you were an idiot Waggy. I think that verbal communication is still the best in life when people can hear and see the other person`s facial expressions. Computer communication will never come close to it.
Lots of hugs, sincerely
It would be such a plesure on another thread or privately to know how you took care of your long hair when you had it and how long was it etc.
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OK Diane - wagging along here.

I am female - 50 years old. I have a lot of experience with hair in the woods but not from the military. Moved a lot a child but parent were NOT in the military. Was married to one man who was actively in the military and am currently and forever married to a man who was an officer in the military, changed his mind and had a career with the federal government. Friend and athletic partner who was actively in the Navy - joined when it was mandatory to cut hair, found it a royal pain and grew hers out to waist length and kept it there while still in the Navy as a career. At this point the Navy no longer required women to cut upon recruitment.

Cousins in Israel - all the girl have served their two years, one is currently visiting (and therefore available for much questioning), she had her curly waist length hair the whole time she served and promptly cut it into a crop when she got out (go figure)!! Male cousin is career in the military there, had long hair to begin then cut, don`t know what`s up now.

Diane - I obviously didn`t make my point correctly or you didn`t understand my point or a combination of the two - because what you said two above was exactly my point - the rule is NOT necessary because people will choose whichever they find more appropriate anyway. I`m not objecting to the choice of short hair, I`m saying I don`t think the rule is necessary.

I also must say that in looking back I DO APOLOGIZE for my snarky comment regarding "who cares, etc." - I said it, but I didn`t mean it, and I am sorry.

I do think you owe me one too though for some of your original tone which made it sound like you thought I was an idiot (now you may indeed have thought that, but it wasn`t nice to point it out)...waggers
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Jennifer - you first - credentials please. Is that the game??? And shouldn`t you be asking which country??? But actually, what IS the point of that question anyway since we are only talking about where, to our knowledge it is OK for people to keep any length of hair and within what guidelines.

Actually Waggy I wish you wouldn`t be so defensive about it and answer the question because firstly you said that you wish that we would ask you questions. Secondly if you were in the army for six months, a year or whatever you could easily tell us what your experience has been like with hair in the woods, in the situations.
Thirdly still trying to figure out if you are a woman or a man? Yes it would matter to the whole discussion. It was your advantage to answer her question and educate her and me etc. You have made that point many times about educating. There you go. All speeds ahead. What is your experience with long hair in combat situations? I on the other hand do have some fun experience of being in the woods having fun combat and my hair was caught. That experience made me really think when I had to wipe off the paint off me......
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Well Waggy sorry that I missed the capital J for jewish. I guess I was typing to fast.
My point was and still is that if long hair in the Isreal army is allowed why isn`t the men wearing long hair? YOu claimed that they do have the choice to wear long hair in the army and maybe there is a tiny amount of men that do. ( 20?) But the leaders of the army etc all seem to have short hair. So in fact that proves to me right there that short hair in the army including the Isreal army all sees the need for short hair. Don`t you find that interesting how they can choose yet they prefer short hair? Maybe the rule isn`t so silly....
If long hair didn`t interfere with the operation of their duties we would see a lot more Isreal men in the army with long hair. The army by their pictures and the news have proven to me that they prefer short hair by far for the obvious reasons.
It would certainly would be interesting to see how many men and women in the USA, England, Canada etc would allow their hair to stay long if they had a choice or would decide that it prevents their performance. Look at our policewomen they prefer to cut their hair and yet they can have long hair if they wish.

For me I hold the memories of many in my heart. I respect the army, every year I honour the men that fought the first war etc. I go to church on that day etc. I have complete respect for anyone that chooses that path in life. It takes a lot of courage and strength to come forward and serve the country. I just wish you would appreciate those men and especially women who have been in combat and are in the history books. YOu certainly had no respect for the people I know that were and are in the army. You said so.

It is not a great career choice. It is more a choice of the heart to serve and protect the people of the country. Their lives are often affected when they leave the army. Lets us not knock down the real meaning of the whole process. I gathered that you resent that whole army attitude by your chosen words. Maybe you were child that was sick and tired of moving to country to country and never feeling that you had a home or can make friend long. It is a hard life and people in the army that stay in the army have the biggest heart in the world because they are willing to give.
It is also sad that you never understood Canadian`s culture. The USA is a beautiful place to live and Canada is not the same when it concerns culture etc. Another subject. As many Canadian thinks of their nationality first then they are Canadians.
May you a great New Years Waggy.

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Aaah Jennifer - still at it, are we!!

I am familiar with life in the military so no need to "fill me in".

You are correct that I said you were ill informed (yes, I know, your hyphens are better than my hyphens) and that was in regard to your statements about what I need to do or do/do not know.

The fact is that every countries military is different.

The fact is that in many countries hair can be any length for men and women and in many countries women are not permitted in combat situations (I don`t agree with that either).

The fact is that many people in the military serve their time without EVER being in any situation that involves combat (contact type) except for training.

The fact is that in some of the countries that allow hair of all lengths for men and women it does NOT create a problem that is deemed in any way insurmountable and some of those countries ARE involved in combat situations quite regularly.

I`ll give this much: some of my earlier words were harsh.

Read what I was responding to and perhaps you will see why I didn`t bother to respond more "nicely" to some statements telling me to "read a map, watch the news, yada yada and what all I NEED to do". Also not very "nice", wouldn`t you agree?

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Waggy,

I suggest you reread your words in this thread. You attach your own spin on others` words, often arguing against what was never said! You later stated as fact that I was ill-informed, yet never clarified your position.

I`m all for a good debate, but you need to understand that against which you are arguing.

Whether you choose to believe it or not, life in the military does not exist as life in the civilian world. There are, of course, many similarities, but much of what flows and ebbs in non-military life simply does not in the military and vice-versa. That particular concept is what I think you cannot or will not grasp.

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Jennifer - back again :=D

you said "The one-upmanship idea is yours alone. I ask because you seem to inherently know what is best for the military."

Contradictory sentences. The second sentence is snide and you know it, therefore, it negates the first sentence.

I can`t help what your friends think. My friends don`t agree and neither do I. If someone CHOOSES to have short hair that`s fine with me, as I`ve stated I had a semi buzz cut myself, but I still think it should be their choice.

As to believing a person doesn`t belong somewhere because they find hair important, come on!!! Is this the new litmus test??!!

It would be nice if you could stop putting different meanings to my words. I never once said that my feelings about what I think hair rules (or any other rules for that matter) should be would keep me or anyone I know from joining and faction of the military, or any other career/lifestyles whatever they choose to be in.

It is not necessary to like or agree with all rules of your chosen endeavor. Or people you choose to "chat" with either, eh?...wags
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Waggy,

The one-upmanship idea is yours alone. I ask because you seem to inherently know what is best for the military.

I`ll be the very first to admit that I`ve never served. However, two very close relatives of mine have graduated from the US Naval Academy at Annapolis and I have several friends from both the Academy and in the military in general. I have to admit that I mentioned this discussion and was nearly accused of making it up! They couldn`t believe that anyone would actually argue against short haircuts in the military, especially for men. And they also said what I essentially said -- if hair is that important an issue with someone, he has no business being in the military (of his own accord, anyway).

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Jennifer - you first - credentials please. Is that the game???

And shouldn`t you be asking which country???

But actually, what IS the point of that question anyway since we are only talking about where, to our knowledge it is OK for people to keep any length of hair and within what guidelines. You could say we are also discussing what we personally think is reasonable as to how it SHOULD be - I suppose under that premise you could make an arguement that if you haven`t been in the military you don`t know whether or not people should keep their hair, but you`d find disagreement there also, among those who have and have not served with or without long hair.

If you are truly interested in my background and experience, I`ll probably be happy to oblige as I certainly have nothing to hide or be embarrassed about.

But right now my feeling is that you are simply trying to do a oneupsmanship with me. I don`t really care for that game. If I am wrong I`m sure we can correct the situation and get along just fine...wags
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Waggy,

Out of curiosity, how many years have you served in a military unit?

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Hi - Highland C. - I think I`m going to like you...wags :=D
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I mocked it because you USED it as if it makes your personal opinions expert.

I also can`t help but notice that you never fail to capitalize the "C" in canada, but almost always use small letters for Israel and Jewish, tut, tut.

What you see on TV (big new flash here) is not all encompassing!!!

You claim I state that Jewish and Israeli men prefer and have long hair - WRONG. I stated that they may have long hair if they so choose. Then you say that TV proves it as FACT that what I didn`t say in the first place is incorrect. Verrrry short sighted of you.

You claim that all women you know with long hair say it interfers - FINE - BUT, that does NOT apply to all women I know with long hair (including when mine has been super long) that I know, I find long hair much easier to keep "out of the way" unless it is literally buzz cut. I`ve done that too.

I am perfectly willing to respect you if you post in a manner that I find merits respect - I found your last post much better than the first few - we`ll see where it goes.

BTW - where I live has all the benefits of multi culturalizm that you mentioned along with all the rights, so let`s not get into a pissing contest about that one OK...wags
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Well Waggy maybe it all depends on where you live. It is hard to be presumptious, incorrect or ill informed when I am living around largest populated jewish area in Canada. It is tough to not get educated when one lives in such a multi cultural background when your best friends in school in daycare are of a diffirent background etc. and then we all work, party together etc. Just the other day I learned about the Chinese language and how today the reading is so diffirent. Gone are the days of upper and lower Canada you know.
You say that you lived in Canada well you should have been aware of this. This is what Canada is all about.
As an immigrant you are allow to come to our country, practice your faith, religious, your language ,your ways and not be thrown in jail for it. Heck we also have private schools for almost all faiths. It is not frown upon that we learn about diffirent languages being taugh in the home. In my home I know three languages. My son announced that he will learning German etc Canada is probably the only country in the world that stand firmly on those rights. That is what makes Canada so beautiful is the cultures. We can easily walk down a street and feel that we are in Italy etc.
Yes I am very aware that there are many many different forms of the jewish religion. They are following their form of their religion. I say form because it is not clear cut. There are many diffirent groups of religious that all can be told that is jewish but are very diffirent from each other.

Some of the richest jewish people live here as well some of them are my friends. IN fact in the newspaper one of the richest jewish families in this world is planning to save their little town in the province where I live.
You assumed that I didn`t know anything about the jewish background which is false. YOu should know better knowing what Canada is all about. We are multi cultural more than anyone else. We are brought up knowing about each other very early in life.
In my area the men do not wear long hair but have beards but not all. Many doctors here are jewish etc. plus on the News, on CNN , in the news paper and everywhere we the public look the men in Isreal that are fighting do have short hair and have beards. I cannot go against those facts. I haven`t seen one Isreal politician or anyone in the millitary that has long hair. You claimed that they are wearing long hair. It seems to me according to the facts that the isreal men prefer short hair in the military. You came so firmly about your opinion about long hair in the army. YOu also came across so knowleable about the Isreal men wearing long hair in the army( I took your word at the time) yet the facts shows that the men prefer short hair. You come across saying that long hair doesn`t cause problems yet every long hair women could tell you a stupid story about their hair being caught etc.
And the only people that cover their faces here are the arab women. OH by the way I do have a jewish employer and I think she knows what she is all about . My family has been to Isreal a few times and I will go one day when the war is over. Maybe you have travel to many parts of the world but many of the parts of the world lives in our Country and everyday I am in culture and learning more and more. I happen to love the jewish culture among others.
To end this You have to remember that I come from a military family. YOu mocked that. You didn`t respect that.
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Funny that I would make my way to a board about hair, but it seems I`ll be posting lots of messages
on it from now on to fulfill my duty. I style myself Colonel John Doe, and am the Commanding
Officer of the Cameron Highlanders, a lobby group that advocates greater respect for human rights.
And though our activities have not CENTERED on hair this far, it is a bona fide sphere for improvement.
Whenever a rule is made up, it should NOT, I repeat, NOT be taken lightly. In this case, I firmly
believe that the military should allow all lengths of hair, as long as it can be put up so that it does not
get in the way of performing one`s functions. In the Camerons, which is organized along military lines,
we deliberately reflect this in the dress code: no rules may prohibit any length of hair or style, as long
as it doesn`t get in the way of your uniform. Thus, you may have a mohawk, but if it is spiked up and
you hat can not firmly cover it, you must do something about it!
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