new hair suggestions? help!

You hair looks like it would do well with a layered bob style but most importantly is how it fits with your whole body.  I think that how long your neck is as well as how wide your sholders are are key to putting a shape that works for your life style.  Any hair cut has to enhance your features so where you place length  or take it away is key.  I like to put hair up to see how it plays with the face then make a jugement in where to take the length to.

i've had the same hair style for as long as i can remember. its changed lengths and occasionally had long bangs or layers, but its pretty much been straight and parted down the center for all of time.
i want to do something different, but i feel that there arnt many styles that work with my face shape/body that i would be comfortable with.
anyone have any suggestions?

i DO NOT want a girly hair cut, no curls, something managable. i'd prefer short, but not bulldyke (i can say that cuz im gay). i just want something different and more clean cut. possibly slightly alternative, but nothing too crazy (not a fan of the mohawk...). plus my hair is very thick and gets very oily, so its kinda hard to work with to begin.

please help!