My Crimped Light Yaki is from...

Bless and Meangirl, I am so happy your resolved your problem.  Bless is truly a wonderful person and I have witnessed this first hand.

Curlygirl11 wrote: Wow! I don't think that statement about SexiB trying to control everything is a fair statement either. Sounds to me like she just stated her opinion and did so in a rather diplomatic way, as did many other women...so why single her out ?  Lafemmenoir I don't doubt that there are other vets out there who know just as much about lace fronts as SexiB. As a matter of fact I'm sure there are BUT I don't see them going out of their way to help out other women who are new to the game...at least not nearly to the same extent as SexiB does. I don't see them compiling and posting Newbie Threads and I don't see them consistently making themselves available to provide the same degree of help and support to other women that SexiB does. I'm not knocking them for not doing what she does because we are all busy and I'm sure she is too. I just don't understand why it seems like you're attacking the person who goes the extra mile to help out other women

Edited by Breh - April 04 2008 at 12:45am

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luvmylf wrote: sexibeach wrote: lafemmenoir wrote: sexibeach wrote: wow this is a shame.. No member had any influerence on her views she ask the questions and we just simply responded with our opinions.. i do believe as a vendor Bless you can surely give your veiw point in your defense, but in the original thread it was at least 8 members that felt that if the hair had crimps then it wasn't light yaki.. and i said it also,  b/c LIGHT YAKI doesn't have crimps, and no one needs to hold a unit in their hands to determined that, when you can plainly see the crimps in the pictures.. the technique was started by Kevincn so we know exactly what a light yaki should appear like and crimps are not involved for the main reason that people like me could have that option to have a light weight yaki without the crimps..   All i'm saying is i'm so sorry for both of your situations, but Meangirl is a woman that has a mind of her own, and as she said being prayful about this situation and i think she's handled it very well. better than most. and she was not swayed by her views, when she had those views b4 she ever posted thread..   I'm sorry that you ladies can't resolve this matter, but maybe it should be clearly stated that its a light kinky straight as opposed to a light yaki..i hate crimps i could certainly understand being disatisfied, and no disrepect to you Bless, but if i order a light yaki that exactly what i would be expecting b/c crimps will never, ever do for me at all .. that's the main reason i order virgin chinese straight and/or light yaki b/c of my haterd of them crimps b/c they scream fake to me..   Let's just let it go as far as a public forum, b/c we don't want no drama on this board, b/c if there's no resolution then it doesn't need to be continued to be discussed here, and since both Meangirl as well as Bless have stated their views on this matter, its just very unfortunate that it could not be resolved..     WOW....Sexi you love being in control and always got something to say.  Speaks volumes...you just don't know when to stop.   wow i'm sorry you see it that way, b/c that's not was my intent.. if you feel that stating my opinion is being in control then OH WELL??? i don't what to tell you, but since its resolved i think we can let it go NOW why continue??  and i'm glad it was resolved and i stated i met no disrepect to bless i felt she should say what she needed to in her defense adn they both did.. so i don't see why fuel is continuing to be added NOW THAT SPEAKS VOLUMES TO ME... the main point is we don't want no drama..   I do not want to flame any fires, but I have to say something about the control statement. I have learned so much from everyone from bhm, and have saved thousands of dollars on the costs of my lf's ,  I can't count how many  tips that I have learned. If it was not for the bhm family I would have given up on lf's a year ago. Let's not forget the incredible research, that I never would have had time to do, that I was able to benefit from. On this board particularly Sexi has spoken - take a look at the newbie threads

Sexi didn't create the threads herself and she has a LOT of time on her hands.  If you feel the need to defend her, do you, I will let it die, I don't want to make it about Sexi. Bring back the sisterhood, but no there are tons of people who know as much or more about lace fronts.  She may be older but that doesn't equate to some of us who are less vocal.  I put no one before God and I felt the need to exercise MY free speech. We ought not confuse free speech and playing judge and juror when Bless has been just as helpful as Sexi if not more.  One luv...out.

I truly respect the opinions of Meangirl and Blessand its true our HAIR can
become downright emotional and its gd to see that its going to be resolved. They both made valid points and I for one think its wonderful to have the support of all you ladies whether you sided or not. EVERYONE HAS THE RIGHT TO STATE THEIR OPINION, now group hug ladies   

Happy for you both that this all behind you both!!!

lafemmenoir wrote: sexibeach wrote: wow this is a shame.. No member had any influerence on her views she ask the questions and we just simply responded with our opinions.. i do believe as a vendor Bless you can surely give your veiw point in your defense, but in the original thread it was at least 8 members that felt that if the hair had crimps then it wasn't light yaki.. and i said it also,  b/c LIGHT YAKI doesn't have crimps, and no one needs to hold a unit in their hands to determined that, when you can plainly see the crimps in the pictures.. the technique was started by Kevincn so we know exactly what a light yaki should appear like and crimps are not involved for the main reason that people like me could have that option to have a light weight yaki without the crimps..   All i'm saying is i'm so sorry for both of your situations, but Meangirl is a woman that has a mind of her own, and as she said being prayful about this situation and i think she's handled it very well. better than most. and she was not swayed by her views, when she had those views b4 she ever posted thread..   I'm sorry that you ladies can't resolve this matter, but maybe it should be clearly stated that its a light kinky straight as opposed to a light yaki..i hate crimps i could certainly understand being disatisfied, and no disrepect to you Bless, but if i order a light yaki that exactly what i would be expecting b/c crimps will never, ever do for me at all .. that's the main reason i order virgin chinese straight and/or light yaki b/c of my haterd of them crimps b/c they scream fake to me..   Let's just let it go as far as a public forum, b/c we don't want no drama on this board, b/c if there's no resolution then it doesn't need to be continued to be discussed here, and since both Meangirl as well as Bless have stated their views on this matter, its just very unfortunate that it could not be resolved..     WOW....Sexi you love being in control and always got something to say.  Speaks volumes...you just don't know when to stop.

Edited by sexibeach - April 03 2008 at 5:43pm

Whooo!   All's well that ends well

Asia35 wrote: I  truly understand Both ladies point of view.   And it's Great that all has ended well.

 I’m glad that everything has worked out for both of you!