Topic: omg please any advice

hi everyone i am new to the site. i am from miami beach area in fl. i am from nyc. i love fashion and makeup..i came to this site to hopefully meet some new and interesting girls who have the smae interests as me...however i am in a complete crisis right now.
on dec 19th i went to frederic fekkai in palm beach to get my long black hair lightened. i brought a pic of audrina patritdge from the hjills with her golden, honey caramel colored hair. now since then i have gone back 4 times, spent like 3500.00$ i ended up doing the brazilian blowout treatment too because it ws startying to get a bit damaged. right now its like so brassy, like orange ish yellow. i dont know what to do> how many more times? should i put like a blonde dye on it?now that is lightened a bit? how doocelebs go from black to blonde? i will do whatever..please help! i am going on a vacation to paris on monday and i cant go with hair like this . i am so sad