Sexier with long hair?

My hair hasnt been short in sooo long but from what I remember I always felt just "cute" then. I feel a bit more beautiful now...although my bf says im more cute than beautiful because of how I act....grrr!


I had wanted long hair even back then but my mom and dad like short hair so eveytime we went to a salon with my mom my hair got cut too. Now that my hair is long i do feel more elegant and more like a fairytale princess. I dont know if I feel sexier...well actualy i think I feel sexier when my hair is between waistlength and brastrap lenght. Less sexy when its shorter than that or is longer than that. Dont know why.

Ive read alot of things that say hair is magic too...
Not countin Sampson...I dont like that story.

I feel much much sexier with long hair. Not even sexy sometimes but just plain beautiful like a fairytale princess or one of the women in a John William Waterhouse painting. I've found that a lot of men are drawn to it too (I may look up that survival of the prettiest thing).
Also, in Tolkiens universe (which I am undoubtedly obsessed with) The long hair of the elves was considered singularly beautiful. Luthien, the most beautiful woman ever to live was said to use magic to grow her hair long. Since there world is one in which I wish I lived it is one I wish to emulate as far as looks. Yeah I know, I'm sorta nuts.

I don't know about sexier for me but having long hair feels like a security blanket and that makes me more confident which I guess in turn could make me more sexy. Remember ladies it's about presentation too!

Traci

What marvellous thoughts, Viktoria.

I wonder if the husbands out there with long haired wives feel uber-masculine...?

I guess there is a lot of traditional symbolism associated with long hair and female eroticism which is supported by "that moment" in old-style movies .....where the heroine's hair falls from it's up-do as she falls in the arms of the hero.

When the hero has long hair, it seems to be significant of a wild maleness when loose (definitely erotic) - and when tied back, of his reigning in of that aspect of himself.

Hmm, the guys seem to let their hair down before a fight as well....tres impractical...wonder what that signifies.
Paralysis by analysis, huh ?

Isn´t it an often reused filmtechnique to make a meeting between the hero and heroine extra sensual and erotic, to have him let her hair down? It seems to me almost archetypally symbolic of the way a woman opens up to her man.

There is no question long hair is sexy, both for the wearer and the partner. I sometimes think that my husband preferring me to wear my hair down when we dress up for a party or so, is deep inside and unconsciously a way for him to show off and tell his fellows: 'look, this is how sexy *I* am!'. What I mean is, the length of my hair also reflects on him. He is 'a man with a long haired woman' and that obviously makes him more virile.

Lovely responses ladies – thank you.

Laine wrote that she loves having it brushed and played with.

In this vein, I think long hair adds an extra dimension to erotic play and can be a powerful way to connect with your partner.

Especially if he or she is the only one who gets to “play” with your hair in a certain way .

And I agree with KathyAnn and Elissa that it depends on the person.

I have often reflected that a person with poorly maintained long hair may not be deriving maximum pleasure from it - or even consider it a part of the expansion of their personal sensual realm.....

That's hard to say Elissa.
*I have shoulder length hair now. I have had my hair longer and shorter than I have it now. I can't say for sure whether long hair makes me feel more attractive or not.
*I am considering growing my hair longer. It seems like the right time to do that.

I really do believe it depends on the person .

Well you have such beautiful long hair Crazy girl, no wonder you like your hair! It looks in perfect condition.
I must admit, Asian ladies in particullar look lovely in long hair, they have such nice hair.
Asian women also look great in short crops too.
My wife is Chinese-American. She had beautiful, very long hair when I met her and then gradually went to very short hair. She looks great either way.

It's interesting that you say you look more mature with long hair because many of the Asian women I know say just the opposite. When they are teenaged girls or young women they wore their hair long, and then when they got into their late 20s they went to the short bob or pixie cuts to make themselves look more "professional" or "mature" instead of having the long "girlie" hair.
I guess it is a matter of perception or how you feel you look in a given hairstyle.
At any rate Crazy girl you are a very beautiful woman!

I think that healthy hair any length can be sexy. But for myself, I like long hair. Just the way it feels on my back, or my chest, or touching my arm. I love having it brushed and played with.

It depends upon the person and the condition of the hair.