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    Posted: January 27 2004 at 7:36pm
OUCH!

Country Girl, Your pain was her gain. Had you not had long hair, and in a ponytail, she might have broken a bone. Lucky for her you have long hair.

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The worst thing that has happned to me is today I was at the mall with a big group of people including my younger sister (she's only 3 years younger than me and we are best friends) Some one tripped her and she fell forward and reached for the nearest thing to stop her from falling. That nearest thing turned out to be my pony tail. Let's just say OUCH. Fortunatly she didn't rip out any hair (I'm still not sure how she didn't)
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Hi Cornczech,

Welcome to the long hair party! er, the long hair gang... er, the long hair group.

I share Jacqui's disgust. Regarding the nasties at the club, I don't think it has anything to do with Milwaukee vs Chicago. A certain 5-letter word beginning with "b" comes to mind. Their hearts are filled with envy.

I've heard of horror stories involving buses (and bus benches) and movie theaters. As Chris says, never take the safety of your hair for granted. Sad but true.
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So far, I haven't been nailed in Montreal by any crimes against capillarity.


Once though, I thought the guy behind me had his back on my hair, every time i tried to get up, i felt a tug.






Turned out it was me. o_O
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Cornczech - that's APPALLING. I am not sure, but I am pretty sure that I would have turned the g$%#d*&( thing around and tried to burn one of them back! I just don't get the inner evil that exists in people.

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I have gone to clubs in Milwaukee, WI (they don't like Chicagoans very much, I guess...) and have actually WATCHED women turn their cigarrettes TOWARDS ME to try and catch my hair on fire....(my hair is to my waist) I ALWAYS wear my hair up to clubs now and am VERY aware of the people around me.......
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Quote nfys wrote:
I read in a magazine a girls story about when a stranger cut off her long hair when he was sat behind her on a bus, so I'm ALWAYS wary now.


Scary Scary Scary
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Originally posted by uzma uzma wrote:

Thank you for making me realise that I have to be more aware of where my hair is


I travel on buses just about every day, Uzi, and what you've said above applies there and to just about any other 'public' situation. Being *aware* of your extending tresses (and where they are) can solve a lot of potential problems (and keep them out of harm's way!).

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I agree about the screws! OUCH

Uzi, that's really terrible. Was the bus packed? I always sit on the side-ward seat behind the driver on the way to work, but I'm lucky that's only on Saturdays.

I read in a magazine a girls story about when a stranger cut off her long hair when he was sat behind her on a bus, so I'm ALWAYS wary now.
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So sorry about what happened to You Uzma. I think I pretty much share the sentiments of everyone who's already posted. I'm glad I haven't run into that problem yet. Usually people I know ask if they can brush my hair if they see me combing it at school or something and as long as their gentle I don't have a problem with it.

As for the hair-getting-in-the-way problem, My hair is naturally kinda wild and I have to be real careful when it's windy. It gets all over people even if I try to pull it back. The best thing to do at times like that is braid it or bun it and forget it.
My biggest problem is and always will be those dang chairs with screws in them. That and children with sticky little fingers. :)
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My hair doesn't get stuck in things too often. However, in an elevator in my building, there is a sign screwed to the wall, and sometimes I absentmindedly lean back on it (I'm on the top floor so it's a long ride), and a few strands will get stuck to a screw. Also, when I used to carry a backpack, my hair would sometimes get stuck under the shoulder straps, but now I carry a messenger bag and that's not as much of a problem.
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Uzi,

Your car door observation reminded me of another one. I close my hair in the automatic car window quite often! One feels very foolish doing that, though usually nobody else notices :)

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P.S. Elissa - thanks for the compliment.

I don't think my hair is pretty as such, but it is unusual or so I've been told.
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Viktoria, Erinlynn and Elissa

Thank you for making me realise that I have to be more aware of where my hair is and if it is getting in other peoples way.

I will take better care in future (not that I'm a hair flicker at all).

This is, I suppose, part of the lessons one learns as someone who is experiencing longer hair for the first time in her life.
Just today, I learned that one has to be careful of car door hinges which can catch your loose hair.

To all those who have "arrived" i.e have long hair, please share your wisdom with those of us who are following in your footsteps.

Many thanks and many more blessings,
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I can't believe someone had the nerve to touch your hair like that, how infuriating! Although it is something of a compliment...it was so pretty that she obviously couldn't help herself!

I haven't taken the bus in a long time, but when I did, now that I think of it people were always pulling my hair by accident--either by grabbing the rail on the back of my seat (flyaways would always get under the hand somehow) or by sitting next to me in horizontal seating, hairs would just somehow get wedged behind a shoulder or arm. My hair does tend to go off on it's own, but most of the time when this would happen the person would apologize and I'd smile or say "that's ok" or some such thing. Usually it was my hair's fault. But I never had someone touch it intentionally! In NYC that could get someone a punch in the face, or worse! Most people in the city are smart enough to keep to themselves. I would imagine it's the same in London?
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Ive by mistake hit someone with my hair before when it was in a long braid. I was also always very careful when i was in school not to let my hair go all over the desk behind me. I usued to sit behind a girl with wild but pretty black hair who every five minutes would flick her hair back and toss her head. her hair would go all over my desk where i was writing. Shed usualy pull it in font of her after a little while then five minutes later flick it back again. I had to say something but it didnt stop. I think I solved things by making sure my desk was far enough away from her chair in the row before we all sat down. That way her hair didnt fall on the desk at all.

Anyways i never wanted to be like her but im sure my hair has been in the way before. I try to be good!
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Hugs back, Dave .

I wonder if my hair will ever make it to my knees?

Long Hair Forever!!!

(just felt like saying that really loudly)
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Originally posted by uzma uzma wrote:

I had my anger button pushed a second time yesterday when I mentioned the incidence to some folks at work and one person said I “had it coming by wearing it loose”! Apparently it’s my fault for inviting people to touch my hair by not wearing it bound up.

Wasn’t a similar argument used in the past to say that women who dressed in a revealing manner “deserved” to get raped?
Anyway, I’m winding myself up again…..you can imagine how that conversation at work developed
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Uzi,

It's called "blaming the victim"... perpetrated by those who refuse to accept responsibility for their own actions.

So many unsupportive people in your r-l

((( Uzi )))

Congrats on reaching the BSL milestone, though!
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I once had a girl in a cinema put up her feet on my hair, I was letting it fall down the back of my seat. Not very pleasant. But she was as embarrassed as I was.

And I once sat on a bus with a very big haired woman in front of me, and since the seats were so close together, I actually felt that her hair was invading my space. I would not have been able to read a magazine or a book without getting her hair tangled up in it. So it goes the other way round as well, I guess. I mean, how much fun is it to get a big hat in your face when you´re watching a stage? Maybe we need to think about where we put our hair, sometimes. Not that that´s an excuse for anyone to touch us or make comments about us!
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Quote had my anger button pushed a second time yesterday when I mentioned the incidence to some folks at work and one person said I “had it coming by wearing it loose”! Apparently it’s my fault for inviting people to touch my hair by not wearing it bound up.


That was a stupid thing that person to say. No one has a right to touch you or anything of yours. It doesn't matter if it's your hair, hands, purse... That would have ticked me off, too.
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