looking for way to soften curls

Have you tried John Frieda's frizz ease hot oil? I heard that the results are great, the only problem is, the bottle doesn't last that long, especially on thick, long hair, so it gets pretty expensive

Also ask your salon specialist if you can do light relaxing, it takes away some of your curls, and leaves the rest of them soft and great looking

my hairdresser said she could use a straightening relaxer, but only use it for a short amount of time which would just relax them enough so they werent frizzy