Does anyone like long hair anymore?

Whoa! Time out!

I`ve sort of been in your boat. I haven`t had tons of luck with dating either...but I think it is terrible to think that you are not good looking enough to date.

Camryn Mannheim is heavy, and has terrific long hair... Liz Taylor`s short hair is great...but you need to be happy with the way you look and hair is one of the easier ways of doing something about the way look in order to make yourself feel better (um and one of the cheaper ways too, I might add)

I`ve been a short fat woman (think hobbit with non-hairy feet) with both long and short hair. Bottom line? Depends on whether or not you think of your hair as part of who you are. If you feel that you should change your hair because it would make you feel more confident...then go for it. If you are happy with it and it makes you feel attractive...well, if it ain`t broke, don`t fix it.

But whatever you do, do it because you want to and not because your friends think you should.


LadyO

I`m a 23 year old female, and I have had long hair since I started growing it out when my grandmother chopped it off in fourth grade. It`s about waist length, and I have it trimmed every few months for split ends.

I like my hair this length, I always thought long hair was beautiful. But everyone I know tells me I should cut it. I`m the only woman my age I know of from any of my high school, college, or grad school acquaintences who doesn`t at least have a boyfriend, if not engaged/married. I`ve lost a lot of weight but am still not attractive enough for anyone to go out with me. Will cutting my hair help? All of my friends tell me I should. I thought people liked long hair, but is it considered passé? Unprofessional? Just plain ugly?

I know if I do cut it I will cry for at least a week, but maybe it`s worth it if it will make me more attractive.

-Kim