My hair is chaotic

Someone please help me!!!!!!!!!!!

i am going out of my mind with going natural. I

have had my hair natural for about a year now,but

the problem is that i keep cutting it off, and i just

can't seem to follow a routine with keep it healthy.

i know that my best bet is to get it braided, but i

wanted to see how long it could grow without

getting braids. It gets prretty long, but then the

growth of my hair begins to slow down, and i

guess i begin to get a little impacient at times. All i

need is help from someone with experience and a
"hair buddy". For support.

My biggest problems are hair oils like rosemary and

jojoba oil and castor oil and etc.
there are to many and i was successful with just the use of olive oil.

But is it enough?