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    Posted: April 23 2005 at 2:48pm

Tryng to understand...what is the purpose of stretching out btw relaxer touch-ups?  Does it help to prevent breakage the longer you go or is it something else. I see wher people have pasted in teh past they stretch anyweher from 8-12 weeks wow! How can you handle your hair?  I usually have a touch-up every 6 weeks so just wondering if there is a reason I should try to stretch it out and if so how to manage that new growth.

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Some stretch their relaxers to prevent over processing, overlapping & to give their hair a break from chemicals.

I personally stretch my relaxers every 24 weeks(six months). Moisturizing & Conditioning often helps alot, also I wear protective styles 90% of the time. I usually finger comb when my new growth starts piling up & only comb when I condition. By doing this my hair doesnt break which can be a problem for some when stretching out relaxers.

If you wanna stretch it out, make sure you moisturize often especially your roots and ends shampoo & condition as often or as you normally would and use less manipulation as possiable(i.e. combing/brushing, heat etc.)

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What moisturizer do you use?

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It's hard for me to go longer than 12 weeks because of the thickness of my new growth. I am currently at 9 weeks and will probably relax next week because my hair begins to shed if my new growth is too heavy. Being 4a/b relaxed, heavy new growth means tangles!! I experienced that today when I washed. I do conditioner washes once a week and I only comb my hair when wet with a ver wide toothed comb. I just can't handle it past that mark and my hair suffers because of it. Moisturizers do help alot but there are times when my hair lets me know, IT'S TIME!!

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Have you tried washing your hair in sections? I'm at week 16 and I know I wouldn't be able to wash or handle my hair while wet without washing it in braided sections.  I even wash it like this after a fresh relaxer.  It really cuts down on the tangling and hair loss.

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I can't speak for anyone else, but my personal decision to stretch out relaxers came out of three issues.

1) No money.  College student, trying to get a $60 relaxer every six weeks and fending off a stylist who insisted that I needed to come to him for a wash every two weeks anyway - bleh.

2) Scissor-happy cosmetologists.  One of my hairdressers claimed that she was cutting out 'ragged ends' when she did my relaxers - but her trims essentially meant that my hair never grew because she cut off at least an inch every time.  I've found someone who cut off exactly what I say, and if I say leave it alone, she leaves it alone.  Unfortunately, she's in another city, so I can only see her when I have the time to travel.  That means fairly infrequently, perhaps every three months or longer.

3) High-quality styling tools  My Solia is small enough to get against my scalp if needed, and hot enough to actually work when it's there.  I dig it. 

Right now I'm at 16 weeks post relaxer, and I haven't found a severely damaged or broken spot in the back of my head yet, which I used to get all the time with my other flatirons.  Of course, it didn't help that I was using hard plastic combs with a blowdryer that wasn't getting the back of my head dry.  Nowadays I air dry and use a big toothed wooden comb, and I don't dream of bringing that flatiron near my head if it's even remotely damp.



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Originally posted by Layla Layla wrote:

What moisturizer do you use?

 

I mainly use S-curl no Drip as a moisturizer.

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I haven't tried washing in sections. Do you lean over a sink to do that and just pin the hair up as you go?
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I stretch 12-16 weeks, and I just wear protective styles everyday. My new growth gets so thick that it looks funny to wear my hair out, so I keep it braided or in a bun. I use light protein twice a week, and either CO wash or shampoo and condition daily. I do overnight oil treatments once a week to help with the softness of the new growth, and I only comb in the shower with conditioner to detangle, and I comb to distribute my leave-in products after I towel dry. That's about it. I never straighten my new growth, I just deal with the two textures.
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What are protective styles?
Type: 3c/4a Natural
Current Length: 6"
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