cuting my long hair

hairlove wrote: i have really long hair and i  had a trim 3weeks ago and i still have really bad split ends my hair is bleached thats why its in so bad condition i just want to get it cut above my shoulders to gto get it healhthy am going on holiday next week should i get dun before i go i just want it healthy have always had long hair i need advice

Yesterday you were just trying to get rid of damage and you got advice on how to maintain your hair length while keeping it long. Today you're saying that what you really want to do is get your hair cut into a bob OR HAVE IT ALL CUT OFF, and you want it so badly it scares you.

If you aren't really looking for advice, then just do what you were going to do anyway. But changing your mind overnight isn't a good way of making a decision about something you could regret for a long time. Get your hair conditioned, treat it right, and then decide when you get back from your vacation what you want to do.

Short haircuts are for people who want their hair short. They're not a good method for managing split ends and other damage.

Have you ever had short hair?  Is your hair damaged from coloring?  How damaged is your hair?  Have you been thinking about a short bob for a while now?  I'm just trying to figure out if this is an impulse decision or not.  Also, if you are stressed out for whatever reason, it's not wise to make a big decision like cutting your hair.  Wait until you're not stressed, and then make decisions.

How much do you like having long hair?  I think healthy hair looks best, whether it's long or short.  Change is always good, especially if your hair is very damaged, get the damaged part cut.  Your hair will always grow back if you don't like it short.

Let us know what you decide to do.