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    Posted: July 15 2005 at 8:49pm
Try praying for her.
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eeesh.....
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*sigh* I dunno, I emailed her ISP and havent heard anything back.  but I also havent gotten any emails so maybe something happened?

she's still on some of the messageboards tho :(

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WOW! What a FREAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope you can get this taken care of. She's really creepy. Jeez, what gets into these people? (obviously Jesus), but seriously, come on now. She needs to just chill the $#@$ out!!! Good luck, seriously.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote kateadreena Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: July 13 2005 at 8:23am
i have a cyber stalking couple atm :|
Look at the last 2 pages of my guestbook on my site :O
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Oh my gosh!  It wouldn`t surprise me at all if police did end up investigating it and discovered this woman is scitzophrenic.  They really believe their own delusions and very often mention jesus alot. Also scitzophrenic people are often obsessed with the notion that he (Jesus) personally talks to them! Regardless, she does sound mentally unstable, not to mention  a total fanatic. What person in their right mind harrasses like that (creepy!) and the things she talks about are just WIERD! I am christian too but the way she goes on sounds  a very disturbed person. I feel for you Kalika.  I think though you have already been given some good advice. Just take it!

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Call me Miss Moderation, here, but I think the first step is to contact her ISP.  Unless she's using some backwater noname company, she is incredibly likely to be in breach of the company's terms of use.  Harrassment is not allowed...because the ISP doesn't want to get sued.  It's much cheaper to just drop a subscriber than to risk going to court.

It looks like she's using Sprint, according to one of the posts above.  According to their website, "You can forward a copy of any SPAM or UCE received via the Sprintlink network directly to abuse@sprint.net."

According to this page (http://www.sprintlink.net/policy/abuse.html), she is definitely in violation of policy, so forward everything she's sent you to that address above.
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{{{{{{{{Kalika}}}}}}}}}.  I wonder if this is Carrie's mother????  Remember the movie???  I can see why you would be scared about this.  I am also leaning towards telling the police because you should have a report on file "just in case" something happens.  Good luck and stay safe.
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this gal is into something other then chritianlity- let me tell you, i am also a christian and her talk of "channeling" well that is not christian, i also think she is into the "hell and brimstone" christianlity or what ever she is doing. which means she is trying to beat you up with her bible. geesh talk about a hypocrate,

i would either do what missy said, or tell her that you already are a christian and that according to YOUR bible, the practices and ways she is trying to reach out to people goes againist the true teachings of christ and for her to leave you alone.

as far as setting an example and trying to reach others, someone once told me the best way was to think like this:

you may be the only bible someone will ever read.

good luck- hey why dont u post her email addy here and we can all start flodding her mail box with stuff telling her to leave u alone-

 

 

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that's a good idea missy! very creative.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote missy66 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: July 01 2005 at 11:53am

if you knew where she was it would help as then her local police would get involved. however without knowing the city---so tell  her this

 

You have changed my mind. This morning I was almost hit by a bus. Jesus came to me in a flash of light and all of a sudden I was thrown onto the side of the road with such force by an unknown hand. I owe it to you, if it was not for your emails helping me see, I would be dead. I need your teaching and procatice. Can you help me? Please, my life has no meaning. Please please show me the way. Can I call you? (if she gives you a # you are all set...) Please dont desert me now, it is you I need to speak with, I fear I may slit my wrist as I have done 8 years ago and not be so lucky this time. Please, let me call you.

 

just try it, what have you got to lose maybe the nut will give you her #. than reverse it in anywho.com, find the city, get her address, call her local police. then fax them all the email with headers.

 

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Does this Gal know where you live?

Seriously, I would consider going on down to my local police Dept and filing a report incase she shows up on your door step....not to mention Social Services should check out the children living in that trailer....
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By the way, I am Christian~ shes not Christian, shes a nut case!
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A friend of mine uses a 'whitelist' program, which is the opposite of a blacklist- certain confirmed senders can send him email, but everyone else gets a message bounced saying "please confirm that this is not bulk email". They then have to reply to that email with the authorization key given in the email. It's not hard to do, but she might be too stupid or lazy to do it. And for everyone else (actual friends), you can add their addresses to the whitelist and they don't get hassled by the program at all. Here's the website: http://tmda.net/

And yeah, definitely report her to her ISP, possibly to SpamCop and anywhere else you're allowed to report spammers ('cause she IS spamming you, and other people!) If it continues, consider filing a plice report for harassment- if nothing else, so you have a paper trail if anything more serious happens in the future.

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nonono, christians are fine.  but nuts arnt, regardless what religion they practice
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gees i am a christian, i think its time to convert to something else now... what a crazy biotch
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Originally posted by mochachip mochachip wrote:


find out the IP address she is logging in from, from one of the boards.  then whois that IP address.  that should give you appropriate contact info.

 

oh, got it!

sprintlink.net.  bitch be going down.  muuuahahahahaha.

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SPAM the email you get from her, and report her.
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you have received emails from her?  I'm guessing they aren't from like aol or anything obvious like that right?

find out the IP address she is logging in from, from one of the boards.  then whois that IP address.  that should give you appropriate contact info.
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Ok, so now I am a korean vampire.  wow.  I must have missed the memo.

*cough*

Anyways, how do I go about reporting her to her isp?

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okay if she were sane refuting her arguments wouldn't be hard.  But she's not so logic won't work and more importantly getting away from her is number one priority.

Personally I'd get her IP info off one of these sites and report her to her ISP.  Report her every time she does this from now on.  And if you are at all afraid that she might escalate and find out where you are int he physical world make a very detailed log of all her harrassment.  that way as soon as she starts up in the real world you will have appropriate info to provide the police.

Also I think amm may have a good point that you want to maybe stay away from some these other forums for a while.  also I'm guessing you have reported her to the moderators/admins at the other boards you go to?  please do.

I don't know what kind of account you have for email.  amm's program may work.  If you have apprpriate access you could email the people you want to get mail from and switch accounts at least temporarily.  Have the one she is using actually shut down for a week or two or whatever you think is an appropriate period of time and then the mail really will bounce.  If she is at all internet savvy and you have an email account with a local ISP/business/school etc she already has a way to get info on your physical location.


In conclusion, report report report, log log log, ignore ignore ignore.
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