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    Posted: June 24 2005 at 7:45pm
Hey guys,

I'm posting mainly because I'm curious about something that has happened twice to me.

I've been trying very hard to take care of my hair since I found this board (ACV rinses, CO washes, not blowdrying, shampooing infrequently, using jojoba, not coloring, etc.). My hair quality has improved, but it's still somewhat frizzy and I'm just biding my time, growing it out past the damage i did to it before.

Twice in the past few weeks, I've showered late at night and had to sleep on my hair wet. I put down a regular old towel since I don't want to wet my pillow and both mornings when I wake up my hair is incredibly soft and, like, glowing it's so shiny.

This is totally counter-intuitive to me. Everything I've read indicates that you should NEVER sleep on wet hair since hair is so fragile when it is wet.

I'm just curious if anyone else has come across this. It's a time saver and it's much less frizz inducing than the normal air drying so I might do it from now on, but I don't want to risk damaging my hair.

Anyone else have similar experiences? It's also entirely possible that this is happening because my hair is completely insane and contrary, which wouldn't surprise me.
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My experience is that there are no hard-and-fast rules that apply to everyone. Lots of the stuff that works for me is supposed to be absolutely destructive to the hair. Like, I always comb it when it's wet, rather than waiting til it dries into a rat's nest. I often use a brush, which I find to be gentler than any but the gentlest combing. And yes, if it's time to go to bed and my hair's wet, I put a towel on the pillow and go to bed.

For me, the hair is frizzier in the am, not silkier. I don't let that concern me.

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I often sleep on wet hair. Showering in the morning has just never been part of my routine, since I either exercize in the evening or have hard labour jobs. I did avoid it when my hair was about BSL, but as it has gotten longer, it works better. It does not seem to damage my hair. What did damage my hair, and a change has improved it tremendously, is shampoo quality. Major benefit!
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I try not to sleep with wet hair, because they say it's bad and everything, but sometimes I just can't help it.  Usually I'll put it in braids before sleeping when it's wet though (which is also bad I know ) because if I leave it down I'll wake up with a lump of hair sticking up in the back and it's not easy to fix.

As for it being soft and shiny when I wake up... sometimes it is and sometimes it isn't.  There are days when it looks great and I don't have to do anything to it before leaving the house and there are days when I wake up and it's a complete rat's nest.

If it works for you and doesn't seem like it's causing damage, I say more power to you! 

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when I had long hair and slept on it when it was wet, it was also less frizzy.  I think what happened is when you sleep your hair lies flat under you and it dries that way, instead of air drying when your up and walking around, when you can get fly aways.

thats just my thoery anyway

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I always allow my hair to air dry at night. I don't go to sleep with my hair dripping wet. I do dry with a towel first.
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When I go to bed with wet hair, I don't use a towel, I never use them on my hair anyway.  I just squeeze out all the excess I can, then shake my head to loosen the rat-tail effect and when it comes to sleeping I just pull it over my shoulder, run my fingers through to separate it a little and tuck it back under my arm and fall asleep.

This happens a lot because cleanliness is secondary to study as a student, but I don't find it makes a difference to when I air-dry in the day.  I don't even bother using a towel to sleep on.  That may be why my matress makes weird noises - rusty springs

 

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Hello Akiz,

EKatherine has a very valid point, what applies and works for

your hair is what works for your hair.

I sleep on wet hair all the time and it doesn't appear to have

caused any trouble for my tresses. Because my hair is detangled

with conditioner on, then rinsed straight, I gently twist it into a

rope, then wrap it around and around my head until I run out

of hair, then put my towel on. When I lay down, I simply release

the twist of the towel and let it lay on my pillow. There are times

I don't even remove the towel from my head, which serves as

a sort of heat turban while I sleep. When I wake, my hair is

generally still pretty damp and can then be combed and air

dried, or put back into a bun for the day.

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wow! I never knew so many people slept with wet hair. I never do it cos it just feels so uncomfortable for me.

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Usually I want til my hair is half-dry to sleep on it, but if it is wet, I put a doubled towel on the pillow to keep it from getting wet. When the towel is uncomfortably damp, the hair is only damp, and I can throw off the towel and sleep on a dry pillow.


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Originally posted by enfys enfys wrote:

This happens a lot because cleanliness is secondary to study as a student

Amen! Sometimes I'll end up doing a hairwash at 1 o'clock in the morning, usually because I'd have gone a week and a half between washes . This effectively has me sleeping with at-least-damp hair. It hasn't done damage as far as I can tell. I try to keep it on the damp side, not wet, for practical reasons.

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AnaisSatin, I'm glad to know I'm not the only one. 

Big advantage of long hair number 35743: You can let it get greasy as hell and it can still look ok in a braid.

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Originally posted by enfys enfys wrote:

Big advantage of long hair number 35743: You can let it get greasy as hell and it can still look ok in a braid.

True! This is a major benefit! No more bad hair days!

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That's what happens to me- my hair usually feels smoother and softer when I sleep with wet hair...

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Big advantage of long hair number 35743

Okay, I give in and have to ask...forgive my ignorance, but what does this mean?

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Originally posted by ACCOLADY ACCOLADY wrote:

Big advantage of long hair number 35743

Okay, I give in and have to ask...forgive my ignorance, but what does this mean?


Merely that there are tens of thousands of advantages to having long hair.   You know, as in "this is just # 35743 on the list."
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whoa!!! 35743rd on the list? i wonder what the other 35742 advantages are?...am trying to convince my self to wait for my hair to grow...i have this itch to have my hair cut, cut, cut short every time i feel it's not growing as fast as i want to......

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You need to work on the patience thing to become a true longhair. Being a longhair is learning to make a commitment to what you want to be. This is #8996 on the list. Growing long hair is a reflection of acquiring patience. This is #16745 on the list.


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Ah, there we go, thank you all.

I guess that one of the few disadvantages would be one's cat having a hayday in your hair without even realizing it.

The other night our Tuxedo cat; Figaro, was laying on the bed just rousting about, having a good old time. As my hair was partially twisted and laying on the bed, I didn't notice what he was doing until I couldn't stand his activity any more. What a mess! LOL

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I do it all the time even though they say it's not good. It's either that or blowdrying.
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