need help quick !!

 

(1) i dont want it to look like a little girls bob, im 25 and i already have a problem with people thinking i am MUCH  younger then i am (i'm sure i'll like it later but right now i'd like a cut that makes me look my age)....

 

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(2) i have dense hair, so i dont want it to "poof" in the front is it possible you think to have it layered as it comes down in front? is there such thing? i only want it to come down slightly past my chin at the longest point.

 

if anyone has ideas or pictures i would be SO greatful

 

here are a couple pictures of me

 

   this is my hair at its wildest

 

 this is my hair tamed

 

 

thanks !!