MAJOR HELP!!!!Super Incredible hold needed!!!

I'm so sick of my hair.No matter what I do it doesn't seem to spike as I want to be.The only way I can make it stand up with spikes is when its short.My hair is short,coarse and oily.When its longer,it looks thick and I want to really spike and mold it for example super flat (no kidding !) all over and standing up literally at the front.My hair is troublesome at about 5cm (yes!) so is htere any product with the strongs most incredible hold other then cement???I live in a very humid country so is there any connection?Thanks! (I think the commercials gels use to work last time but they were drying and I've never use them since).I'm not very experience with wax although I've tried Wellas wax (commerical version) and it doesn't seem to supermold my hair :( Thanks!

Use Fudge Hair Gum - Control Factor 1.