Stay blonde or go brunette?

I totally agree too! Your hairdressers sounds awesome! Everytime I've gone in to a hairdresser they've bashed me for doing my own hair and tried to make my hair darker.... but she seems to care about your hair and what you want. I want her! Hahaha... I think the white lady is too much for you too, it is to make the hair white but used to often it makes it grey/ashy, see if you could find one with a little color in it... like golden. I applied light golden on mine cause I was having ashy area's too... it worked, btu sadly does wash out quickly. :) Good luck Vixen!