should i tell her

I am a male but i like to have my hair done in rollers,i also like to have my hair styled in a updo. I want to tell my wife but i am afraid i want her to set my hair and also style it in a updo. What should i do, should i tell her please help.

OK..here is what I would do if I were in your situation.I would start things very slow. Ask your wife to give you a scalp massage. Then offer to give her one. Do that a few times and then if she is OK with it, move to the next step. Ask if you can brush or comb her hair for her. If she likes that and lets you...then ask her to do yours.Continue to take small steps until you get to the point where you offer to braid her hair or put it up for her or whatever seems appropriate. Once you get to that point...you can broach the subject and see how she feels about doing your hair.You also have to judge about your wife. Is she open minded? Is she conservative? I am sure you probably know how she is. Approach her from an area where she would feel most comfortable and then try to share your thoughts about all of this with her.If you are afraid that it would cause problems then maybe you should consider other options.I would personally want my guy to tell me if he was into something unusual and as long as it didn't involve something I was uncomfortable with, I would be willing to at least listen to what he had to say.Maybe your wife will surprise you and be OK with this.Or maybe the best approach is to take baby steps like I suggested.Let us know how it goes.Best wishes,Karen> I am a male but i like to have my hair done in> rollers,i also like to have my hair styled in a updo.> I want to tell my wife but i am afraid i want her to> set my hair and also style it in a updo. What should i> do, should i tell her please help.

Dude, get over your sissyness!!! Get a haircut for crying out loud!! Gosh, I never thought I'd see the day when I heard a grown man whine about what his woman would think about him in rollers!!! What kind of man wears rollers in his hair?! What's American society coming too??? Men are letting themselves become demasculinized in America today. It's a shame.