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Well Amy, I think what you and I have done is fairly common for the many women that are femme bisexual women.
First we are with a man and live like a hetrosexual woman and have some kids with the man, and then later settle into a lesbian relationship with a female lover. That's fairly common.
I'm now a lesbian though and consider myself as such because I have found the woman I want to spend my life with, I love her very much and I am a dedicated wife to her and she is my husband. My marriage is just like my hetro girlfriends marriages are except they are married to men and I'm married to a woman. I do everything any other housewife does.

Amy,
I have two daughters, one is a little baby and the other is 6 years old. Both of my kids from the same man.

I have worn my hair short for some time. Lately I've been wearing it very short in a buzzcut. I'm a femme though, I always wear dresses or skirts, jewelry, earrings, makeup.
The woman I'm with has longer hair than I do, her hair is nearly to her shoulders.

I'm a femme lesbian, at present I'm a housewife, and live with a woman who I consider my female husband. She's the breadwinner at present in our family.

Most of my girlfriends are hetrosexual and married to men. But we get along fine, they accept the fact I'm married to a woman. All of us discuss our husbands when we get together for coffee or whatever, it's just that I have a woman for a husband and they have men for husbands. But they are very tolerant of my lifestyle.

I live in the midwest.

Hey Brenda...

I don't really have a Label, although I do consider myself more lesbian than Bisexual..

How old are your kids? I have two sons, ages 11 and 7... So anyway...
I can't wait until pride this year.. Where do you live?

Amy

You said you are getting your hair cut right before the gay pride day.
Are you a lesbian or bisexual?
I'm a bisexual woman myself. I have two small daughters and live with a woman.

You are an attractive woman LuvShortHair. You would look great in an even shorter hair style. A short pixie would work for you. An attractive lady such as yourself can really wear her hair as short as you want and look good.
Try a very short, neatly trimmed pixie.

Amy, I don't know anyone in Hawaii. Have a great move to the East Coast.

Hi, I like your hair!
I wear my hair short too.
I have a new baby so short hair is easy for me to take care of.

I like the style you picked the best.. the others (esp the first one) are a little harst for your soft features...in my opinion.

Is you hair natually blonde?

Taking pictures helps more than anything. I've always had the worst luck when trying to explain with words :-P . I've never called around to ask if a salon has anyone specifically for short hair, but considering most stylists I've seen in the past try to talk one down from very short hair, I guess it couldn't hurt. *shrugs*
If the pic you like doesn't have a good angle, gather pics of various similar styles and hopefully between them a more complete idea can come together.
And if you get bored with short hair, stock up on various styling products and cute accessories :-) . You can experiment with texture, spikes, glitter, temporary gel-in pinks, blues, greens, etc., and any sort of headbands, velcro jewels, hair clippies, etc. that will stay in your hair. Have lots of fun and play with your hair, and you shouldn't get bored very easily :-) .

Ohhhhhh THOSE are totally HOT!!

VERY cute!! I thought the same thing about the other picture i put up... kinda hard to tell what he hair looks like without looking right at her...

Oh I love short hair.. I'm going to have to ponder which I am daring enough to get! I love em thos and they are both very good suggestions.. Do you have suggestions on finding a salon.. Do I call and ask if they have a hairdresser who specializes in womyn haircuts thats are short? I had a hairdresser but the last time I went to her, i ended up asking her 3 different times to take it shorter.. finally I just felt like a witch and just paid.. LOL

So.. Do you think calling around and asking specifically if they have a stylist who likes doing short hair on womyn...??

It was soo cool of you to take the time to put those pictures up! You rock!
Thanks for saying I have nice facial features too... very sweet!

So now that I have talked your ear off.. let me know if you or anyone as any thought about the stylist thing..

hugs,
Amy