My man John likes me bald. he has a child with a friend of ours who has alopecia areata. we also have a child together, and like Jasmine, i too am an African-American women who wears a short afro and sometime shaves bald. ~Monique
I am a fiftyone year old mamma of three in bush Alaska. I've cut my own hair forever and often worn it very long for years and years. Oddly, I've been terrified of letting my own need for a bit of vanity shine through the older I've gotten but of late really felt the urge to explore a little dash and dare. This week, during a sadly lonely time I cut my hair very short. Just having the freedom to make my own look was exhilarating. This morning I've shaved it all off and I feel like I've just sprouted wings. Talk about a tactile rush. Taking a trip to our little village today has me spooked . But heck, coming out should be fresh everyday right? For an artistic romp look up Claude Cahun. Ah, what an era. Then and now. Blaze on with love.
It's not easy for me to explain in english but I'm gonna try
My husband have always like women with very short hair and with buzz cut.
In 1994 I've begin to shave him.
And in 1997 I have would like to try it and for the first time I've just be shaved at 6 mm. After this time my husband have shaved me some times. 5 or 6 times by year.
December 31th 1999 I would to be blonde but when I have left the hair salon my hair was between yellow and orange. That won't be very beautiful
And I've said to my husband : "OK I don't like my new hair color. If you want you can shave me, completely !
And I've loved that
But it wasn't easy with my family and my friends. I've just continue to do buzz cut.
I'll be bald 2 other times in february 2003 and in august 2004.
I hope that you can understand what I wanna say
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As everyone knows, Myriam, I LOVE long hair on women, but I think it's unconscionable for anyone to ridicule you over hairstyle choice. I can't save the world, and I know that sarcasm is a fact of life for any woman who chooses to be hairless, but most people respect you, I think (I hope!). Bob
myriam in scotland there are woman who take clippers and shave there head , i would say its easy to buzz cut other than to be bald in my opinion , I find it hard to tell people that i want to be a hairdresser i have summin wrong with my left arm , i know that to be a hairdresser you need both arms .
I've never been bald, but I used to have a buzz. I got more negative reactions from the people I live with than people just in the outside world. I don't recall being asked about it or had many comments or anything. *shrugs* I think it's pretty safe.
Thanks for your answers
I was bald just 3 times. Usually I have buzz cut or very short hair.
But I have the same bad reactions when I was bald or a buzz cut.
I think in France it's more easy too for black woman to be bald even if there's no many women to do it...
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I've never been bald, but I used to have a buzz. I got more negative reactions from the people I live with than people just in the outside world. I don't recall being asked about it or had many comments or anything. *shrugs* I think it's pretty safe.
Hello Myriam, great to have you here on Hair Talk.
There is no stigma to a woman being bald in most major American cities. In small towns I am sure it is different. When I was in west Europe a few years back I saw several bald women in London, Paris, Berlin, and Amsterdamm. I know there are women shaving their heads in Europe. As far as your city goes, maybe it is not a large city so bald women are not as common. Keep your bald style if you wish. I think it's great that you are a liberated woman that likes to shave her head. It is one of the most attractive hairstyles on a beautiful lady, and like my lady Jasmine you look delightful bald!!!
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