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> okay i have this problem w/ my hair!!! Well my hair is> Super thick and its like super frizzy...and to top it> off its naturally wavy. It's brittle and i need help!!> How can i make my hair soft? and my goodness its like> soo frizzzzyyy..I've tried sooo many things..Please> help!!! Should I strighting my hair out..or what?> please please help..Thank you sooO much!!!i would say try hot oil treatments and look for product called shine works wonders.

Deep condition and do a scalp treatment weekly. Use heat to really deep condition.Wash it only every few days, or at a minimum every other day.After you wash it, apply a gel for your hair type, let it air dry until damp if you can, if not use a hair dryer on low drying the under sections first, until damp.Then use a large round brush to smooth it out as the final steps of drying, OR, use jumbo velcro rollers( I promise the velcro rollers will make it look and feel healthy.) If you skip every day washing, you will get a few days out of it.using pins to hold in place if needed, OR, let hair completely dry and use a large curling iron to smooth. Apply a pomade or oil based hair shine product.Getting it chemically straightened may dry it out and may not work for you, but you should discuss this with a professional stylist.