SHort Hairs..do you get picked up as much?

Just a poll that I want to take.

If you wear a short hair style now (or at some time) and have also worn it long...Do you find that you get as much attention when out at clubs?

I myself have found that I get a lot more attention when my hair is long. I would love to hear different. Maybe that someone gets more attention with a cute short cut?

jacqui

I'm African-American, and I got more positive attention from men when I went to a short afro than with long hair.

When I shaved my head and went with the bald look is when I got , by far, the most positive attention from men (Black and White men), especially when I was dressed up nice in sexy clothes, makeup, and earrings.

Maybe I got the attention I did because very short hair or a shaved head is still somewhat unusual on women (although more common than before), and some men find that attractive on a lady.

Different types of ordinary short hairstyles on women are common of course.

Sometimes I get more attention than I want when wearing the bald look, especially since I already have a man and am not interested in getting hit on by guys.

That's why when I am shaving my head , like I have been this summer, I usually wear a wig or headscarf in public and at work.

It's fine for me to go bald around the house, my kids and friends are used to it, and my man likes it and is used to it, but in public I draw less attention by wearing a wig or a headscarf.

I have never had any problems meeting people because I have short hair. Just the opposite. I get approached quite often and told how much they love my hsort hairstyle.

My long-haired wife can't walk two blocks by herself w/o some guy asking her if she needs a ride. She even told me last month that she feels guilty, and asked me if she should cut it to ward off the smarmy suitors! Fat chance *I'll* say yes! In fact, I'm thrilled that my wife still has to fend off guys at 44.
When her hair was short, harassment was not a problem. I admit, though, that some women look fantastic with short hair. My younger wife looked cute short, but apparently not good enough in the eyes of other men to curry propositions from them. Bob

S_ Miller's icon is a photo of actress Mariska Hartigay

Yes my Icon is not me. My hair is very similar to hers but being new to this room, I'm not quite comfortable enough to put my real pic online. Maybe someday I will.

Stephanie

hi,I actually had my hair a few years ago go from shoulder length hair to a pixie cut,like Drew Barrymore used to have,and i used to style it all messy and such. My then boyfriend(whom is now my husband) went WILD,especially since I kept it a secret.I actually got lots more attention with the shorter hair than with the longer and im actually thinking of going back to that cut,which is why im here.I feel more attractive with the shorter hair;my husband also loves my neck so the short hair is good in his opinion.!

Susan:

Did the short haired girls show you our secret handshake? lol

To me it's no contest:

I love beautiful women regardless of their hair length, but if it comes down to being with a lovely lady with long hair or a lovely lady with short hair, to me short hairstyles are more attractive on most women.

If your husband likes you in all styles of hair DakotaDiva, then by all means wear your hair very short!