about to have a wedding and need help with my hair!!!

i have naturally curly hair. i tried an at home straightener kit, but it only made my hair frizzy. i then tried an at home perm kit, but it didnt work. i now have dry frizzy hair. a salon person told me not to perm my hair again. i am now conditioning it and useing hot oil treatments, but i want my curls back so i can look good for my wedding. please help me. i dont want to use any more chemicals unless it will reverse the mess up, but i doubt they have any:( please give me any tips or ideas on what to do. i greatly appriciate it.

hey, thanks for the advice. ill tryit..but i thought mayo was to clean your hair really good? ill try it anyway...i need all the help i can get.lol thanks and ill let you know how it turns out:)