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> HEY I AM 13 AND THIS YEAR I AM GOING TO BE A FRESHMAN> SO MY MOM AGREED TO LET ME GET SOMETHING DONE TO MY> HAIR.Well I decided that I wanted blonde highlights> becuase my hair is kind of a strawberry brown color> and I wanted it a little lighter. However I have never> had any chemicals on my hair before, other than perm> soulution. Do you think it will damage my hair? Any> suggestions as far as extra strenth condtioners or> anything? Also my mom warns me that is can be painful.> Is she exagerating? If you are a hair dresser, or a> student in beauty college, or as long as you know what> you are talking about please e-mail me at> Angelcik26@aol.com with your suggestions. Thanxs alotMy hairdresser puts a swimmers-like cap on hair and pulls through sections of hair to highlight. It pulls a little but nothing to scream about. She leaves the color on for 15-20 min. and then washes it out and ...presto highlights. You will need to use a good moisturizing shampoo and conditioner to keep your hair healthy. Use a leave-in conditioner when you comb out your hair, also. If at all possible, stay away from blow-dryers, they can damage hair over time. I color my hair and my hair is in wonderful condition. I use multi-vitamins, complex amino-acid tablets and biotin tablets every day to keep my hair healthy. Try to find products without "Sodium Lauryl Sulfate". This is used as an engine degreaser and a cheap way to make lather in shampoos. "Sodium Laureth Sulfate" is a mild detergent and is safe to use. Go with a product at a health food store. Most of the products are cruelty-free and better for hair.Related Link:SLS vs. SLES