need help so bad, plz help

hi, im a guy and i have been going for long hair for so long.... i keep messing it up and ending getting it cut, im on about my 4th attempt right now because i just dont know how to handle my hair, i have posted here before but ive finally found a style i love some of theese pictures are bad but i think u can get the idea. here they are




sorry abot the badness once again, the style i want is this, the sleek and slightly shiny look, with separation at the front and parting down the middle.

please could u post in detail if thats not too much to ask because im quite stupid :D.

also if u need more pics plz tell me.

problems im having is, my hair has lots of wax in it because its the only way i can handle it at the min, when i wet my hair it does frizz up alot and the bangs kinda curl alot because i add so much gel to get a cool look at the front. my hair does look lame the 1st 1-2 days after washing but then it goes shiny and sleep and ace apart from the bangs which i cant have sleek because they curl from the gel when wet and i cant get it all out.

sorry about the long post, any comments would be sooo much appreaciated, even if its just a little advice. the products i can buy easily is at www.asda.co.uk on the take a look/online shopping/ toiletrys/haircare/styling products part.

THANKYOU SO MUCH!, i may post this in various parts of the site too because i dont know where it belongs, thx again.