need help now!plz

alright so im mixed with black and white and you woulld imagine i got that good hair right? well thats what i have been told, but i was so fed up with curly, tangly, and nappy hair that i went and got a relaxer! now it was all good in the begining but after a while, my hair wasn't the ame. i had longer hair b4 i got the relaxer and now its to my shoulders! i hate it, and i want my hair back. i was told i could just stop gettin relaxers, but then my hair would look ugly and not done. or i could get it stripped, but that could damage my hair even more, or i could just start all over and cut it all off and have a jada pinkett look untill i get my beautiful curls back. help me! i need some advice....